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06-07-2008, 09:03 AM
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| Secrets of LOVE......!!! * The First Secret: The power of Love. Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet. * The Second Secret: The power of Respect. You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself? " To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?" * The Third Secret: The power of Giving. If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take. * The Fourth Secret: The power of Friendship. To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship. * The Fifth Secret: The power of Touch. Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love. * The Sixth Secret: The power of Letting go. If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. * The Seventh Secret: The power of Communication. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word ... it could be the last time you see them. * The Eighth Secret: The power of Commitment. If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong, loving one. * The Ninth Secret: The power of Passion. Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion. * The Tenth Secret: The power of Trust. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.
__________________  “Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possible - the hero is the man who lets no obstacle prevent him from pursuing the values he has CHOSEN.”  |
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06-07-2008, 07:29 PM
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| very nice thread neo... !! very true specially abt power of communication : )
__________________  ye dasht-e-junoon ye pagalpan ye peecha kerti ruswai ye ranj-o-alam yeh hizn-o-malal ye nala-e-shab yeh soz-e-kamaal Dil main Kahin benaam chubhan aur had-e-nazar tak tanhai hum dasht-e-junoon k sodai |
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07-07-2008, 12:52 AM
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| nice sharing neo, The tenth secret is most imp for any type of relation i think so...
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11-07-2008, 01:48 AM
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 ... ahaaaan... to power of communication secret hayinteresting.... i will sharpen my skill of communication from now on  thankss freeeek :o)
__________________ “Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possible - the hero is the man who lets no obstacle prevent him from pursuing the values he has CHOSEN.” |
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11-07-2008, 01:49 AM
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..yep trust is the key of any relation :o)
__________________ “Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possible - the hero is the man who lets no obstacle prevent him from pursuing the values he has CHOSEN.” |
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11-07-2008, 02:20 AM
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| wesay eik bat samajh nahi aye  or na hi meri ammi nay na hi kisi or ki ammi nay samjhaye  kya tum donooo hi IS par believe kartay ho ye phir kisi or ki nazro se ye post guzri nahi   
__________________ “Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possible - the hero is the man who lets no obstacle prevent him from pursuing the values he has CHOSEN.” |
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11-07-2008, 02:43 AM
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| lejyey guzar gaee kisi aur ki nazroo'n sey bhi .... :) love has the Power to Reach and to Make its Way out .... so don't worry pplz will be here soon :)) very well written and very true ... believe me or not ... today just something hit my mind so I thought I would make a poll for it ... and its was about love ...something like "what your focus point when u love someone?" ... all those points are covered here ... let me see if I can create that poll here (and yea if u allow :) .. ) ...otherwise phir kabhii ... (BTW hisaab baraber ... I picked one of ur idea earlier today ...the signature one ... n now u picked mine thru this thread :) ... )
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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11-07-2008, 02:49 AM
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| I will go for a list where Trust and Respect will top the rest. these are my focal point about love and I believe (totally my perception) these 2 can bring the rest automatically ... khair it all depends what the 2 need in their lives on priority basis so list shuffles as per that.
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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13-07-2008, 06:50 AM
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Gurukul Ki HAWAIN to PONCHNI hi thi chahye dair ye sawair se hi true.. kehtay hain MOHABBAT ki zaban HAR eik ko samajh ati hai..  shukran.. ........ or AP ko IJAZAT Hay  ..lolz@signature one.. ... .. hum to urti chiriya k par gin laitay hain ye to eik chota sa idea thaa 
__________________ “Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possible - the hero is the man who lets no obstacle prevent him from pursuing the values he has CHOSEN.” |
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13-07-2008, 07:50 AM
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| log sahi kehtey hein ... "piyar tu muhtaj nahi ..lafzoo'n ka laffazi ka jazboo'n ki akkasi ka, kisi k leyey ger piyar ho tu baatoo'n sey jhalakta hey ... sab sey isey chhupaaney ki ger sha'oori koshish ho tu aankhoo'n sey chhalakta hey" bla bla bla :)) jee badi meharbaani eejazat ki ... :) rahi baat uurti chirya k per ginne ki tu wo main already gin chuki thi ... aur waisey bhi aap ney maan liya k CHOTA sa idea tha who any one can pick
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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13-07-2008, 04:54 PM
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| not only are these secrets but also the best way of making sure that u get fooled : ) .... try all that and u shall end up burnt ..... i am ready to do all that ... bring me some1 who is worth it !!!!!!! i am sure alot of ppl feel the same way .. that they cud do it too .... if they found the right person : ) .... im sorry ... i am cynic when it comes to certain things .... i dont say love doesnt exist .... coz fools like us are always around : ) ps. best friend does not necessarily mean a good partner .
__________________ I have the making of a gentleman and that of a monster. (sherlock homles by Sir Arthur conan doyle) Last edited by mezzedup; 13-07-2008 at 04:57 PM.. |
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13-07-2008, 10:08 PM
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| "Being hurt by Love" is acceptable but "being fooled on the name of Love" is something different and we can't or shudn't put this in the category of 'Love' .... rite!! its all about the true love ... or someone who's enough worthy or deserve this true love ... point is if there is love, one is ready to do all these with little up n down in terms of wht tops the priority list.
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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14-07-2008, 09:46 AM
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| nice post omer Bro very true and I m agree wd Mahv and other frnds that communication is the key and of course trust & respect comes later. In loving someone, I want myself to be better so as to be worthy of her love for me. one grand reason for love is ... " because we bring out the best in each other" Love is not just an emotion people feel towards other people, but also a complex tying of the emotions that two people have.. may be 'll discuss more later ... Of course, more needs to be said about what it is that makes a particular person to be the object of love.
__________________ Jatay samay Jab main nay mur ker dekha Door talak koi nahi thaa Bus main Tanha thaa oor uss ki yadain theen Alwida ...Alwida...Alwida...!!! |
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14-07-2008, 07:00 PM
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no comment
__________________ I have the making of a gentleman and that of a monster. (sherlock homles by Sir Arthur conan doyle) |
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14-07-2008, 11:44 PM
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__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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15-07-2008, 01:03 AM
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"Everyone should love once at least :) ... it makes that person soo good and nice for him/herself as well as for others". because for our loved one we change ourselves somehow (with our own wish) ... whtever we have been just neglecting or ignoring, we started focusing on that ... we try to over come bad traits for our loved ones and so. As far as "what it is that makes a person, Object of love" is concern, tu it will vary person to person (the one who is lovin the other) ... one's caring n loving nature can make one The Object of love ... one's beauty can do so ... one's intelligence and understanding can be the reason as well ... so there's no universal formula for it... everyone is free to make his/her own definition and pursue the very own reasons.
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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15-07-2008, 06:19 AM
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__________________ I have the making of a gentleman and that of a monster. (sherlock homles by Sir Arthur conan doyle) |
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16-07-2008, 04:10 AM
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| then okk ........ :)
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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16-07-2008, 09:13 PM
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__________________ You're gonna be a shining star, fancy clothes, fancy car-ars and then you'll see, you're gonna go far cos every1 knows, who you are-are so live your life (ay ay ay) instead of chasing that paper just live your life (oh! ay ay ay) ain't got no time for no haterz....... |
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02-08-2008, 03:52 PM
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| Ahaan, Nice Thread Neo This Doesn't Have Anything To Do With Certain Experiences Does It ?  Thanx For Sharing :)
__________________ Main Deewana Prem Pujari Na Samjho Harjaai Main To Thehra Rabb Da Banda Dunyia Hai Saedaai Ishq Muhabbat Pyar Hai Pooja Jagg Na Smjhe Haae ....  |
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