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How long should you be engaged before you get married?

Hello Everyone ,

it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)
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Re: How long should you be engaged before you get married?

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it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)
hmmm..i think 2 yearsss in MOre than enuff.. wot do U think ??
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Re: Re: How long should you be engaged before you get married?

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hmmm..i think 2 yearsss in MOre than enuff.. wot do U think ??
i am not sure... by the way 2 years sounds appropriate...
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i am not sure... by the way 2 years sounds appropriate...

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As per my knowledge regarding ingagement, this type of no item is in islam u can say "Ghair Sharei" and in the islam only Nikkah so y ur so confuse when it is not in islam just leave it.
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Assalam u Alaikum
As per my knowledge regarding ingagement, this type of no item is in islam u can say "Ghair Sharei" and in the islam only Nikkah so y ur so confuse when it is not in islam just leave it.
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very true....!

but now a days people on one side dont want to lose good 'rishta' and on other hand they want time for arrangements and stuff... and some times just dont want the marriage to happen so soon... so they have created this engagement thing...

anyways im not littery confused because im not getting married or engage i was just wondering.... but thanks for ur reply..... :)
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i am not sure... by the way 2 years sounds appropriate...
hmmmmmm..Yeahh..
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very true....!

but now a days people on one side dont want to lose good 'rishta' and on other hand they want time for arrangements and stuff... and some times just dont want the marriage to happen so soon... so they have created this engagement thing...

anyways im not littery confused because im not getting married or engage i was just wondering.... but thanks for ur reply..... :)


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Re: How long should you be engaged before you get married?

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Hello Everyone ,

it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)

in my opinion hmm .. 4 - 6 months is jst the right time .. but if there is any prob. in tht u can go on for an year .. but not more than tht ....... thn it would b a bit 2 much ....
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in my opinion hmm .. 4 - 6 months is jst the right time .. but if there is any prob. in tht u can go on for an year .. but not more than tht ....... thn it would b a bit 2 much ....
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Re: How long should you be engaged before you get married?

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Hello Everyone ,

it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)


engagement is month.. nxt month shaadi aur teesray din valima.. jhat mangni pat biyah
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in my opinion hmm .. 4 - 6 months is jst the right time .. but if there is any prob. in tht u can go on for an year .. but not more than tht ....... thn it would b a bit 2 much ....
lolz... do u want me to send this reply to ur in-laws ?
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engagement is month.. nxt month shaadi aur teesray din valima.. jhat mangni pat biyah
yani tum jhat mangani pat veeya pay yaqen rakhtay ho.....
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yani tum jhat mangani pat veeya pay yaqen rakhtay ho.....
na jee.. main yaqeen nahi dil rakhta hun is baat pe

wese seriously 1 yr thik hai..
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na jee.. main yaqeen nahi dil rakhta hun is baat pe

wese seriously 1 yr thik hai..
hhmm..... yeah i think kay 1 yr sahi hay.. waisay i guess zayada say zayada 3 yrs tuk honi chahay engagement... bus... zayada nahi latkana chahay issay.....
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it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)
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lol.... zaroor sooch k batao Sid ...
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engagement is month.. nxt month shaadi aur teesray din valima.. jhat mangni pat biyah
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Re: How long should you be engaged before you get married?

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it got me thinking ... so i thought i should know what everyone else think about this so here is this questions for you.... How long should you be engaged before you get married?..

any personal good/bad experience about it can be said here as well... just be true and open in ur opinion.... :)
salamz dear
haya personally i hate engagement bus direct shadi honi chahye eng k baad i think missunderstandings bardti hai
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