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| Birth Order & Your Personality 8 Facts That Might Surprise You Only-Borns Positives: Only-borns are the mega-movers of the world. They are task-oriented; tend to be extremely well organized, very conscientious, and ultimately dependable. They love facts, ideas, and details, and feel extremely comfortable with responsibility. Negatives: Only-born negatives can be tough to handle, martially speaking. They are often unforgiving, very demanding, hate to admit they're wrong, and usually don't accept criticism well. To others, they seem very sensitive and, indeed, their feelings are easily hurt. First-Borns Positives: They are natural leaders. They represent United States presidents, astronauts, and CEOs by overwhelming numbers. They frequently live with a sense of entitlement and even superiority. They often come in two flavors: compliant nurturers/caregivers or aggressive movers and shakers. Both are in control; they just use different methods. As a rule, first-borns are picky, precise people -they love paying attention to details -and they tend to be punctual, organized, and competent. They want to see things done right the first time. They don't like surprises. Negatives: They are often moody and occasionally lack sensitivity. They can be intimidating, particularly by pushing people too hard or refusing to take no for an answer. Sometimes they can be a bit of "know-it-all," and often are poor delegators, in large part because they don't trust other people as much as they trust themselves. They also tend to be bossy, flaw pickers, and conscientious to a fault. Middle-Borns Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators. Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail. Last-Borns Positives: You're probably one of the world's cheerleaders. You have strong people skills and love to entertain and talk to others. You're the type of person who never met a stranger; you can immediately make others feel at home. You're an extrovert, energized by the presence of other people, and you're probably not afraid to take a risk now and then. Negatives: They tend to get bored rather quickly. They have a strong fear of rejection and a short attention span. When the fun stops, they want to check out. They're somewhat self-centered. They may doom more relationships due to their unrealistic expectations of finding a relationship that is always marked by fun and of course, such relationships simply don't exist for long.
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| Last-Borns Positives: You're probably one of the world's cheerleaders. You have strong people skills and love to entertain and talk to others. You're the type of person who never met a stranger; you can immediately make others feel at home. You're an extrovert, energized by the presence of other people, and you're probably not afraid to take a risk now and then. Negatives: They tend to get bored rather quickly. They have a strong fear of rejection and a short attention span. When the fun stops, they want to check out. They're somewhat self-centered. They may doom more relationships due to their unrealistic expectations of finding a relationship that is always marked by fun and of course, such relationships simply don't exist for long. might be u r true good sharing
__________________ Nahi h woh Shakhs Muqadar main Phir bhi Us Se Miltey Hain...... Bara Pur Lutf Lagta Hai Muqadar Ko Saza Daina......,, |
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| Last-Borns Positives: You're probably one of the world's cheerleaders. You have strong people skills and love to entertain and talk to others. You're the type of person who never met a stranger; you can immediately make others feel at home. You're an extrovert, energized by the presence of other people, and you're probably not afraid to take a risk now and then. Negatives: They tend to get bored rather quickly. They have a strong fear of rejection and a short attention span. When the fun stops, they want to check out. They're somewhat self-centered. They may doom more relationships due to their unrealistic expectations of finding a relationship that is always marked by fun and of course, such relationships simply don't exist for long. __________________ nice :)
__________________ ![]() “You can shed tears that she is gone, or you can smile because she has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back, or you can open your eyes and see all she's left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see her, or you can be full of the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember her only that she is gone, or you can cherish her memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back. Or you can do what she'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.” |
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| thnx 2 all of u :)
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| Middle-Borns Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators. Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.
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| mujhay samjhao how do u know this only-borns, middle borns etc etc Im confused :S
__________________ ![]() ye dasht-e-junoon ye pagalpan ye peecha kerti ruswai ye ranj-o-alam yeh hizn-o-malal ye nala-e-shab yeh soz-e-kamaal Dil main Kahin benaam chubhan aur had-e-nazar tak tanhai hum dasht-e-junoon k sodai |
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| iska matlab hai ap kaunse no. peh paida hui ho...sab se bari child ho apne ghar ki tu u r a 1st born agar u se bara hia koi aur chota b tu u middle bron ho aur agar sab se choti ho tu last born ho...aur agar akeli child ho tu only born ho...
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| Pata h m ne dukhey m likha tha m smjhy k kon si date k hsaab s h par Iteefaq h m ghar m bhi choty hon last borns and date of brthday bhi last 28 hahaha
__________________ Nahi h woh Shakhs Muqadar main Phir bhi Us Se Miltey Hain...... Bara Pur Lutf Lagta Hai Muqadar Ko Saza Daina......,, |
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| ohkayzzzzzz.... main isay Houses ki sense main le rahi thi :D Middle-Borns Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators. Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.
__________________ ![]() ye dasht-e-junoon ye pagalpan ye peecha kerti ruswai ye ranj-o-alam yeh hizn-o-malal ye nala-e-shab yeh soz-e-kamaal Dil main Kahin benaam chubhan aur had-e-nazar tak tanhai hum dasht-e-junoon k sodai |
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| lolzzzzzz ap ki kya baat hai janab...
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| ahan wah g wah thats gud
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__________________ ![]() ye dasht-e-junoon ye pagalpan ye peecha kerti ruswai ye ranj-o-alam yeh hizn-o-malal ye nala-e-shab yeh soz-e-kamaal Dil main Kahin benaam chubhan aur had-e-nazar tak tanhai hum dasht-e-junoon k sodai |
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| ahmm ahmm lol
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| First-Borns Positives: They are natural leaders. They represent United States presidents, astronauts, and CEOs by overwhelming numbers. They frequently live with a sense of entitlement and even superiority. They often come in two flavors: compliant nurturers/caregivers or aggressive movers and shakers. Both are in control; they just use different methods. As a rule, first-borns are picky, precise people -they love paying attention to details -and they tend to be punctual, organized, and competent. They want to see things done right the first time. They don't like surprises. Negatives: They are often moody and occasionally lack sensitivity. They can be intimidating, particularly by pushing people too hard or refusing to take no for an answer. Sometimes they can be a bit of "know-it-all," and often are poor delegators, in large part because they don't trust other people as much as they trust themselves. They also tend to be bossy, flaw pickers, and conscientious to a fault. |
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| Middle-Borns Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators. Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.
__________________ ........................................ little changes bring the BIG ones ... so let's get changed right from the individual level to change the whole picture Verbal Impression lasts longer n matters more than Visual Impression so be thoughtful about it ...........AQUARIAN........... |
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| Middle-Borns Positives: The classic middle-born is very relational, tends to be a people-pleaser and usually hates confrontation. Their basic need is to keep the oceans of life smooth, and their motto might be 'Peace at any price.' They are usually very calm, will roll with the punches, and are amiable, down-to-earth, and great listeners. They are skilled at seeing both sides of a problem and eager to make everybody happy. That makes them good mediators and negotiators. Negatives: They tend to be less driven than first-borns, but are much more desirous of having everybody like them -- or at least happy with them. They have a difficult time setting boundaries. They can drift into becoming 'codependents' as they try to please everybody. They are not good at making decisions that will offend others. They also tend to blame themselves when others fail.
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| Laghta h Kg ko bhi smjh m nhe aaya h haha
__________________ Nahi h woh Shakhs Muqadar main Phir bhi Us Se Miltey Hain...... Bara Pur Lutf Lagta Hai Muqadar Ko Saza Daina......,, |
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