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04-07-2008, 10:26 AM
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| Dating Culture !!!! HI N Salam To All Respected MODs, Members & Guest: Mein Ye Baat Janna Chahta HO k ye DATES kia hain, mein aj tak nahi samjh paya ho ... Kia ye humara culture hai ....?? Kia ye muhaabat hai......? ya fustrations.....? cheating hai... Ya phir koi aur khawaish?? Hum Kedhar jaa rahe hain ??? 13, 14 saal k larky aur lakyan aese azad ghom rahe hote hain ....... jese har tarah ki sharam aur haya kahatm ho gai hai ...... and they look easy as they r doing very good duty.
__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts  |
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04-07-2008, 10:28 AM
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| Koi Hai Jo Mujhe sumjahy !!!!!!!!!!!!
__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts |
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04-07-2008, 11:36 AM
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hmmm nice thread....  ye sirf oor sirf WESTERN CULTURE hai.....  FILMS ki life ko young generation practical life banana chahti hai...  ye sirf EK BEHAYAI ki ek QISAM hai.... muje ek speech yaad hai QTV main dekhi thi.... ek western banda oor ek mulim somthing like that tha... muslim ulma ne kaha ap lakh koshish karlo musalmano ko bahkaney ki magar wo DEEN-E-ISLAM nahein choren ge they r MUSLIMS....  SUDDENDLY western ka wo banda HANSA oor bola "OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE MUSLIM lekin ham ne MUSALMANO ko MUSALMAN rahne he kahan dia hai...!!"  es k ye lafz 14tabaq roshan kargaye......!!!  well in short......... hamara DEEN agar LARKI ko bht HIDAYAT deta hai tu LARKOON ko bhi kaha hai k apni nighaeen neechi rakhoo... mgr AFSOS na ajkal k boys oor na he girls esko manty han woo ISLAMIC CULTURE se BHT door kosoon door ja chukey hain.....!!  DATING ka concept ISLAM hai hai he nahien....... han BEHAYAI main SHUMAAR hai..... or es tarha kar k log DIRECT DOZAK ki janib ja rahy hain.... DIRECT ...
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04-07-2008, 11:37 AM
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| Its all based on mind of persons. May be engaged person meet on some place and you thinks it wrong... If your mind is clear then you may be right But if you have some bad thinking while dating you 1000% wrong and its bad activity
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04-07-2008, 11:56 AM
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 what......... 100% wrong hain ap engagement ko bhi islam main koi mazbot rishta qarar nahien diya gaya... chalo theek hai maan bhi lia k they r engaged....  tu wo ek dosre k ghar main bhi tu mil sakty hain kiu bahar jaty hain??? yaar ye sari baten ham logo ne apne dil ko tassali dene k liye bana rakhi hainnn  AKHRIAT main na dil ki tasali chalegi na FUZUL JAWABAT........ hosh ajana chaheye ab sab musalmano ko
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04-07-2008, 11:59 AM
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Bohat Khob.............. Magar Hum kab Is bat ko samjhe gay ... hum kab dosron ki copy karna chory ge..... I think k Karachi me koi aesi jagah nahi hai jaha mein ne dates na dekhi ho.... aur kuch Mall, Resturant, shoping center n parks r specially famous for DATES. so where is our Government of ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF PAKISTAN, Y they are not taking any types of action at these type of place ... specially Sea Sides.. and parks.
__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts |
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04-07-2008, 12:03 PM
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Yar Mangetars NA MEHRAM hote hotey hain, aur islam me kisi bhi namehram,Bahar aur akele tu dour k baat hai,sub k samne aur ghar me bhi sath bethne ki ejazat nahi hai. chahy ap jo bhi thinking ho....... Islam humari thinking se nahi ALLAH Aur Us K RASOL Ki baton se qayam hai.
__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts |
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04-07-2008, 12:07 PM
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ham kab es baat ko samjhey ge...??? tu sirf ye kahungi... khuda ne aj tak os qom ki halat nahien badli... na ho jisko khayal ap apni halat k badalne ka... ye sirf GOVT oa PAKISTAN ka he kam nahein hai friend.... ye qom k logon ka bhi farz hai..... agr ham main se he koi awaz nahien ithayega tu kuch nahein hoga.... agr her koi apne ghar k GARBAGES saaf rakheyga tu ye kachra ghar se bahar he nahein aayega..... GOT IT.......
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04-07-2008, 12:12 PM
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ye DATE ghar main nahein ho sakti...?? nahein na.... kiu....?? waha sab k samne sharam aayegi...hai na....tu kia bahar HOTELS wagera main HAYA nahein aayegi.... es tarha se ap ye bhi kah lo FILMS dekhne main kia hai apni apni thinkig ki baat hai............
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04-07-2008, 12:18 PM
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You Are Absoulty Right... But Government Hoti Ise Liye hai K agar koi galat aur ghair islami kam ho tu us ko rukhna, chahy DATES ho ya Robbery. It doesnot matter. aur agar hum me itne soch aur samjh hoti tu aj humara ye haal na hota k hum HAZRAT KHALID BIN WALID ko chor K SUperman.Batmen ya KARISh ki power ki bataein karin. Maya ap bilkul sahi ho magar Government ki bhi responsibilty hoti hai k public places pe koi ghair ikhlaqi kam na ho, koi crime na ho , koi LAWS And RULE & REGULATIONS ko Na tore.
__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts |
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04-07-2008, 12:20 PM
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| Well............ Why would we even say "DATING CULTURE" a part of us ??? Nahi na aisa koi culture humara hay na hum kabhi iss ko appreciate ker saktay hain aur yeh itnee ghaleez cheez cancer ki terhan society may phail rahi hay! Magar I DO NOT blame the governments for that! govt aur kaun sa kuch sahi ker rahi hay jo yeh nahi roka to bara gunah ho gaya hay! Sub say PEHLI zimadari to Parents ki hay na guriya :) nayee ? Kia aap nay jin bachay bachion ko dates maartay huay dekha hay aapko yaqeen hay 10% kay bhi parents ko patta hogga humara bacha iss waqt KAHAN hay ? Maan baap ka kaam sirf paal ker bara kerna aur paisa kama ker feed kerna nahi hotta hay, jub baap paisa kamanay kay liyeh raat gaye tuk ghur may na hon aulaad kay ser per aur aisay may Mayen BHI tamam time star plus ko denay lug jayen to phir aap ko aisay threads bananay kay liyeh yoon hee dates luganay walay log dikhain gey na! Baap say bhi kahin zayda maan ki zima dari hotti hay keh wo aulaad ko sahi raastay per rakahy aur agar baat uss kay bus say bahir hay to baap ko bhi invlove keray tah keh aulaad kay qadam rokay jayen tabahi ki taraf janay say. Bachon ka kia hay jo wo TV per hota dekhain gey aur parents bhi usko discourage nahi kerain gey to unhon nay to usko sahi hee samajhna hay na :) Main daway say ye baat keh sakti hoon jis jis ghar may Insdian soaps aur aisay hee behooda Pakistanni soaps with out any care bachon ko dikhaye jatay hain, wahan 13-14 saal kay bachay bachiyan aisay hee khuwabon ki duniya may jeetay hain! ye qasoor unn bachon ka nahi hay isska jawab to wo tub dain gey jub SHAOOR in true sense un may aayeh ga pehli pooch to walidain ki honi hay na! Last edited by Mrs.Khan; 04-07-2008 at 12:23 PM. |
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04-07-2008, 12:26 PM
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__________________ Yours Wooer ---------------- Hazrat Abu Huraira Say Riwayat Hai K Nabi Kareem (S.A.W.) Ne Farmaya; "Jis Shaks Nai Bina Kisi Sharaye Uzar Aur Bimari K Ramazan Ka Aik Bhi Roza Chora Tu Puri Zindagi K Roze Say Iska Badal Nahi Hosakta." (Ibne Maja) ------------------------------------- Farman-e-Mustafa ; Islamic Quotation; FUNNY SMS ; Friendship SMS; The Beautiful Karachi ; DUA; Love & Rommance ; For BrOken Hearts |
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04-07-2008, 12:35 PM
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| Aik aur baat yaad ayee which is an example for me and my siblings, yeh aur kissi ki nahi meray parents ki baat hay. We were in Dubai back then and in those days when my eldest brother was only in FSc there came this video games mania! yeh he too with his friend started going there prettttttyyyyyyyy much! Earlier in that time he used to either go for football or to liabrary for making some notes. My mother somehow got suspicious of his activities and since she knew this would look bad if she herself go after him, she told my dad. Not only that she got a bit mad at my abu ji also coz my abu ji is a big time NEWS LOVER (just like most of dads! " Anyways she told him " Aap news suna kerain kul ko issi ka phal khana hay na aur aulaad ko jo marzi aayeh kernay dain, aapko patta hay Shahid aaj kul liabrary jata hay yaa foot ball ya kahin aur? " My abu ji got worried too and strated to follow him! As you all know kids happen to be a bit more clever than their parents my brother managed to dodge my baba jaan and dint get caught. But after sometime when he got relaxed that abu ji is not coming after him anymore my dad caught him RED HANDED! yeah he was in the middle of some game when baba jaan reached there and stood at his back he wanted to beat the heck out of him. And yes he took REAL SERIOUS NOTICE and reacted pretty mad at him! We all siblings used to think "awww see how bad it is baba jaan could have made him understand some other way, he might be feeling sooo embarresed infront of his friends! bechara! Nobody among us could have thought what parents would have gone through. But today when we all are grown up and that same bhai of mine is going to be a Urologist soon inshaALLAH, when I have my own kid at hom but not a son though, I still think that was the BEST TREATMENT my father gave to him and my mother supported our dad! So you see same is the case with dating and stuff, you dont give your children enough education of Deen then you cry! you dont educate them with VALUES and then you cry! You do not pay attention to their activities and then again its you who would cry at the end! |
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04-07-2008, 12:50 PM
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Your first statement made me say subhanALLAH! So what do you think ALLAH dint know that in 21st centuray PEOPLE would have MINDS to take decisions with and HE still gave us a deen which we write a number of times on or exam sheets "Islam MUKAMMAL zabtaia-e-hayat hay" what for ? just to get good marks only :)? Iss liyeh apnay apnay nanhay zehnon per zor denay say behter hay hum wo kerain jis ka hukam CLEAR aur SAAF lafzon may aa chuka hay. Next lets come to "Engaged persons meeting" How many engaged couples who got married later could you please quote here who themselves CLAIM their meetings before marriage dint make any bad impressions on their marital lives ? So better stop coming with these LAMES which they say in the name of "Understanding" each other, coz who is living happily now he would have lived the same way even without getting to meet their fiance! |
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04-07-2008, 12:59 PM
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mgr ajkal tu GOV ki western CULTURE ki chamcha geeri kar raha hai....... GOVT en sab ko bht peechey choor chuki hai... n 2nd ye k ab hamare mulq main QUAID-E-AZAM , LIAQUAT ALI KHAN jese LEADER nahein rehy........... ap ne ajkal GEO se song nahien dekha jis main QUAID-E-AZAM ko tasweerm ain roty hwe dikhaya hai........ dill PHATNE lagta hai ye scene dekh k ...... but kia kar sakty hain........... ye he k kechar k qareeb jane se bacha jaye kiu k eski ek cheent bhi kapro ko napak kardeti hai....
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04-07-2008, 01:03 PM
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04-07-2008, 01:05 PM
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ap ne wo kuch samjha dia jo shayd main n ahien samjha pa rahi thi.... 
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