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Old 07-07-2008, 09:07 AM
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Govt. Have Some Responsibility.
jee I said the same ki of course Govt shud play its role so that the general lot can be controlled ... while the ones who r beyond GENERAL level will find their way to keep doing all these and it can only be controlled by CHANGING them ... their perception n so.
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Arey wah, yahan to khoob behes chal rahi hai:).
Zubair, bacchey main such kehta hoon ke tumhari janib se aisa topic dekh ker, aur tumharey khayalaat jaan ker azhud khushi hui hai:). main hamaisha yehi kehta hoon ke haan hamari nojawan nazal ka koi kasoor nahin:). aur main janta hoon ke tum jaisey bacchey bohat hain hamarey yahan:). keep it up chanda:)

Baqi I guess jo points main kehna chahta hoon wo already cover ho chukey hain:). aur jinhon ne nahin samajhna, unhon ne Allah SWT aur Rasool e akhir uz zamaan ke irshad kerda deen ko hi nahin samjha to wo mujh jaisey aasi gunahgaar logon ki kiya sunain gey?:)....is liyeh aisey tamaam hazrat o khawateen se mazrat ke saath apney mazeed comments ko restrict kerta hoon:)
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Arey wah, yahan to khoob behes chal rahi hai:).
Zubair, bacchey main such kehta hoon ke tumhari janib se aisa topic dekh ker, aur tumharey khayalaat jaan ker azhud khushi hui hai:). main hamaisha yehi kehta hoon ke haan hamari nojawan nazal ka koi kasoor nahin:). aur main janta hoon ke tum jaisey bacchey bohat hain hamarey yahan:). keep it up chanda:)

Baqi I guess jo points main kehna chahta hoon wo already cover ho chukey hain:). aur jinhon ne nahin samajhna, unhon ne Allah SWT aur Rasool e akhir uz zamaan ke irshad kerda deen ko hi nahin samjha to wo mujh jaisey aasi gunahgaar logon ki kiya sunain gey?:)....is liyeh aisey tamaam hazrat o khawateen se mazrat ke saath apney mazeed comments ko restrict kerta hoon:)


Wow!!! Me CHANDA .........

AnyWays Nadeem Bhai Ap Bhi Apna Opinion Post Karein,
Agar Bhabhi ki Tarah Koi Experince hai tu bhi ...

Hume ap jase ki guideline ki bohat zarorat hai ..

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wo is leye k abhi tak BEHTARI ki umeed jo baqi hey :) ...n waisey bhi aik baar maarney mey wo maza kahan!!

BTW ye jo itna udaas n naaraaz sa banda betha hey yey bhi tu kaheen, "aik baar hi gala ghont k maar kyun nahi detay" sey guzar k aaya hey :)
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to agar JIN logo k behtar honay ki UMEED na ho to kya un ka GALA GHONT diya jaye???
ap kare aise mazay @n waisey bhi aik baar maarney mey wo maza kahan!!

.. hume to aik bar jee lenay de

pata nahi kaha say aya hay... mujhey pata bhi nahi chala tha or yeh sahab bethay hoan thay @ye jo itna udaas n naaraaz sa banda betha hey
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jab ki jab dekhi jaey gee ... cz umeed kab tak rehti hey ye paesh goee nahi ker saktey poori tarah .. mujhey umeed hey ki aakhri saans tak umeed rahey gee tu gala ghontney ki naubat nahi aaey gee :)

jee pata bi kaisey chaley ga .. aap khud jo rael ki patdiyoo'n mey shayed thodi saaf suuthri jaga talash kernay mey masroof hein ..jahan leta ja sakey n doosroo'n ko gala ghontney sey bachya ja sakey ... nahi!!
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nice thread par teenagers ki to baat hee alag hai.....bus ek prob hai bachon ki k woh apne aapko umar se zyada samajh rahay hain.....or woh yeh samajhtay hain K baray honey ka matlab hai behayaai.....par me aesa kabhi nahi karna chahoonga.....
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nice thread par teenagers ki to baat hee alag hai.....bus ek prob hai bachon ki k woh apne aapko umar se zyada samajh rahay hain.....or woh yeh samajhtay hain K baray honey ka matlab hai behayaai.....par me aesa kabhi nahi karna chahoonga.....


apko itni si age mein pata hia what's a date ?

me ko tu pak anay se pehlay pata hi nahi tha date kya hoti hai

yeh tu me ko 1st time tab pata chala jab pak mein 1st Valentines day dekha...yani jab main 18yrz ka tha
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lolz.....mere dost bohot ****ay hain ... un ki wajeh se mujhe pata chala hai :$
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HI N Salam To All Respected MODs, Members & Guest:

Mein Ye Baat Janna Chahta HO k ye DATES kia hain,
mein aj tak nahi samjh paya ho ...

Kia ye humara culture hai ....??

Kia ye muhaabat hai......?

ya fustrations.....?

cheating hai...

Ya phir koi aur khawaish??


Hum Kedhar jaa rahe hain ???



13, 14 saal k larky aur lakyan aese azad ghom rahe hote hain .......
jese har tarah ki sharam aur haya kahatm ho gai hai ......

and they look easy as they r doing very good duty.
Walaikam assalam
I wonder ke aaj tuk ye topic meri nazer se kaisey posheeda rhe gaya hai:)
ya phir main ne already post ker diya hai and i dont remember?
khair anyways, aik mertaba phir post kerney se koi kanoon thori toot raha hai:)

Zubi, beta bohat umda sawal hai.
how old r u?
22 may be?
and i must say that having this question in your mind at this young age, gives me a pleasure and I really think that you must have received very good upbringing by your parents, Mashallah. Wo zaroor tum per fakhar kertey hongey:)....jeetey raho and keep it up:)

ub aatey hain topic ki teraf.
Beta, yeh sawal, among many others, has always bothered me.
main ager phir baat mazhabi rung dhang se keroonga to shayyad off topic si lagey, but jo haqeeqat hai main wo zaroor bayan karoonga.

meri samajh main jo reasons aatey hain wo as following hain:

1) Haram ki Kamai
2) Hakoomat ka MODERATION ka nara, jis ne mazhab se bezari paida ker di hai
3) Walidain ki perwarish main kami
4) taleem ke naam per westernization
5) fashion ke naam per westernization
6) freedom of speech ke naam per battameezi
7) azadi ke naam per behayai
8) art aur talent ke naam per kuffar ki imitation
9) Quran aur Sunnah se duuri.
10) selfishness
11) distance from religion and introduction of many biddahs (improvisations) in religion

aur in ke ilawa bhi dheron dher reasons hian but i consider these the main ones.

Aur in ki buniyadi wajah sirf aur sirf mazhab se duuri hai.
Culture kiya hota hai? hadood aur boundaries ke ander rehney waley logon ka aik giroh, jo apney ilakey aur apney rehen sehen main kuch routines ke aadi ho jatey hian, apas main communication ke liyeh medium of words istemaal kertey hain jis ko language ka naam detey hain aur combinedly is ko CULTURE kaha jata hai.

Kiya culture ehem hai?
nahin culture kuch bhi nai hai. culture ki buniyad ager mazhab ho to wo mazhab khoon ki terhaan ragon main dorta hai.

kiya basant manana, fahers day mothers day manana, april fool celebration, jashn e azadi, eid milad, 23rd march, birthdays, valentines day etc manana hamara culture hai? mujhey sakhti se ikhtelaaf hai aisey culture se kiyun ke ye mera culture nahin hai. at least main ne aik aisey ghar mian perwarish nahin pai jahan per in sub wahiyat cheezon ko culture ke naam per apney ander ghusaya jae.

to phir kiya hain hum?
hum ne sunni masjid bana di, hum ne shia masjid bana di, hum ne devbandi masjid bana ker 73 derh iint ki masajid bana di hain. namazi hain, but namaz nahin, rozeydaar hain, mager roza nahin..........chehrey musalmaanon ke hain mager noor nahin........to kiya yehi hai islam?

hergiz nahin.

aur chunkey hamari buniyaad hi ghalat hai, to is liyeh dating hi kiya, tum dekh lena ankareeb issi mulk main sharab aam dukanon perm ilegi, love hotels banae jayengey aur koi kisi ko rokney tokney wala nahin hoga aur jis kisi ne himmat ki, us ko sir e aam goli maar di jaegi.......

"Allah ki rassi ko mazbooti se pakro", "namaz her burai se rokti hai" etc Quran main Allah Tallah ne wazeh ferma diya hai. Mager hum apney logics paish kerkey koi na koi rasta justify ker letey hain. Patan ahin insaan ye kiyun bhool gaya hai ke bewaqoof wo kisi aur ko nahin bana raha hai, wo khud bewaqoof hai. Kiyunke Allah SWT se to kuch nahin chupa huwa. hisaab bhi Allah Tallah ko hi dena hai, to phir ye sub kis liyeh?:)

Zubi beta, hum aisa sochney waley abnormal hain aaj ki duniya main. humain Allah SWT se dua kerni chahiyeh hai ke ager is ummah ne mazeed bigerna hai to phir humain utha le, qayamat aa jae kiyun ke is se ziada dekhney ki taab at least merey ander nahin hai.

Allah SWT humain durust rastey per chalney ki tofeeq ata fermae. ameen
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Islamic Republic Of Pakistan


Pakistan Ka Matlab Kia "La Ilaha Illlah."



Muslim Have Their Own Culture,LAws,RUles N Regualtion.

In He Basis Pe Pakistan Bana Tha Na k Azad Khayali Aur West ka Culture Aam Karne K LIe,



Phir Huamry HAkim Aur Hume West Aur India Ki Taraf Dekhny Ki Zarorat Q Pesh aaye.

Mujhe Nai Malom K Q Hum Ne Mulk TU Dour KI Baat Hai Islam Ki Bhi Basics Q Chor Di Hain.

Mulk Is Nam Pe bana K Muslims Ko Tamam Haqoq Mile Gain....

Halal Aur Haram Me Farq Ho Ga .....

Aur Islamic Rule K Mutabiq Government Bany Gi... Na K West Ki Jamohrait.

Aur Agar Aese He Karna Tha TU Hume Alag Mulk Lena he Nahi Chaye Tha.
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lolz.....mere dost bohot ****ay hain ... un ki wajeh se mujhe pata chala hai :$
Galat Baat Malom Hona Burai Nahi Hai...

But Us Pe Amal Karna Burai Hoti Hai...
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Dear Zubair

Nice thread

but you know what

you have all the answers in your mind but you just need reconfirmation from others.

YES...........

it is frustration

it is loneliness

it is cheating with self

it is NOT LOVE

b/c TRUE LOVE NEVER MEETS ON ROADS, HOTELS, PARKS etc.

PARENTS.............

PARENTS ARE THE MOST RESPONSIBLE PERSONALITIES FOR THIS DESTRUCTIVE ACTIVITY.

DON'T SHOUT FRIENDS................

I HAVE A VALID REASON............

LISTEN........

NOW A DAYS MOSTLY.......... I REPEAT.......... NOT ALL........... BUT.............. MOSTLY......... PARENTS ARE TOO BUZY THEY DON'T HAVE TIME TO TALK WITH THEIR CHILDREN
THEY EVEN DON'T TRY TO BE A BEST FREINDS OF THEIR CHILDREN. WHAT EXACTLY THEY ARE DOING GIVING THEM A CELL PHONE, A COMPUTER, AND MONEY IS NOT PARENTING AT ALL.


FRIENDSHIP DOESN'T MEAN TO BREAK THE LIMITS B/W A PARENT AND A CHILD.

FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO HOLD YOUR CHILD HONESTLY, TO TEACH YOUR CHILD IN A WAY WHICH HELPS HIM OR HER TO MAKE A CORRECT DECISION IN LIFE.

it is an eye opener for all parents. PLEASE WAKEUP and SAVE YOUR CHILDREN.......................

BEFORE ITS TOO LATE..............
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Always remember....

Creative comments helps us to go forward in our life more enthusiastically.

Thank you zubair

jeetay Raheyay

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Re: Dating Culture !!!!

Very nicely put Ilsa.
parents are responsible for this degradation of muslim women.
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Re: Dating Culture !!!!

Listen Hulk!
Re-Think and Reframe your sentence
IT IS THE DEGRADATION OF BOTH MEN AND WOMEN.
Y V R SO RUDE WITH MEN? and
Y V R SO HUMBLE WITH WOMEN?
IT IS CALLED GENDER BASED DISCRIMINATION
MEN ALSO DESERVE RESPECT.
I AM SORRY, BUT DEAR
NO MAN CAN EVEN TAKE A SINGLE STEP UNTILL AND UNLESS A GIRL DON'T AGREE.
I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT FORCED RELATIONSHIPS I AM TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIP WITH CONSENT
SORRY FEMALES.................
BUT SOME HOW SOME WHERE V R ALSO RESPONSIBLE............
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