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Bhabhi ki baat bilkul 100 % Right hai .......l

Samjhane ka nadaz bilkul Nadeem bhai wala hai

quite impresing !!!


but KOI HAI JO MUJHE SAMJHAEY un k lie tha jo DATES ki favours me hote hain !!!
tu ZUBAIR age difference oor experience bhi tu kuch cheez hai na....

um k liye jo dating k favour main....LO...... yani main ne fuzul main baat main tang aarai....
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tu ZUBAIR age difference oor experience bhi tu kuch cheez hai na....

um k liye jo dating k favour main....LO...... yani main ne fuzul main baat main tang aarai....
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Mein ne socha tha k kuch log favour bhi karein ge.

Magar Allah Ka Shukar hai k iss forum pe koi bhi favour me nahi hai
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Ok sab jaante hain dating is not considered good in Islam.

Aur waise bhi, yahan dates theek se lagane kaun deta hai :o( sea view per jao to police wale tang karte hain... park mei jao to itne cheap log... muesums best hain :o) hehe wahan bhi baar baar elaan hota rehta hai "kisi bhi kisam ki ghair ikhlaaqi harkat se guraiz karein, warna karwaai ki jayegi" thora sa paas baitho to guard aa kar bolta hai "betaa duur duuur" ab kya duur baith kar sms per baat karein? :( phir mulk ke haalat dekho.. kabhi bomb dhamaake.. kabhi firing.. kahan jayen :(
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Mein Ye Baat Janna Chahta HO k ye DATES kia hain,
mein aj tak nahi samjh paya ho ...

Kia ye humara culture hai ....??

Kia ye muhaabat hai......?

ya fustrations.....?

cheating hai...

Ya phir koi aur khawaish??


Hum Kedhar jaa rahe hain ???



13, 14 saal k larky aur lakyan aese azad ghom rahe hote hain .......
jese har tarah ki sharam aur haya kahatm ho gai hai ......

and they look easy as they r doing very good duty.
Of course it something we adopted direct from west or indirect from west to India to us .... because we're so much fascinated about such modernism so want to acquire every bit of it.

hamara culture kia hey wo tu ab dhoondna padta hey ... at least jo Pakistan media pey project kia ja raha hey wo tu nahi hey hargiz ...

Rahi baat yey kia hey tu yey Mohabbat bhi her giz nahi hey ... yey just aik fashion ban geya hey ... the symbol of being modern ... being social ... to show tht have enough guts to have a boy/girl friend and things like that.
au rafsoos ki baat ye hey k ab had sey tajawuz kerta jaraha hey yey fashion ... limits expand horahein hein youth ki ... kal tak jo baat unexpected and shameful lagti thi ...wo aaj aik common si baat hogaee hey n jo aaj bhi thoda amusing hey wo (surat-e-haal ko dekhtey heuy) aaney waaley kal tak common hojaey gee.

yey sab bas khud ki hi tabahiyoo'n ka saaman hey ... khud ko diya janey wala aik dhoka hey ... and isi dating ki waja sey kitney rishtey bikhertey hein ya even jo is basis pey qaem huwa hota hey wo khud aik weak rishta hota hey cz kisi bhi bad scenrio mey any of the 2 (or any third person) just point it out to the other person ... muhabbat k naam pey jo kuch aaj kertey hein kal wohi baat unkey leye tana ban jaati hey.

rahi baat Govt. ka role is mamley mey tu I guess yey kisi doosrey ka kaam nahi ... yey her shakhs ki khud ki soch hey ki uski kia lines and limits hein ... ya phir uskey ghar waaloon ki ... werna kon kis pey kahan tak pabandi laga sakta hey agar lagana bhi chahey (referring so-called laws of public places) ... kernay waley kab kahan kia ker saktey hein yey as such controable nahi hey ...

but yea it never means ki I am saying ki they shudn't chk couples sitting alone at public places ... they shud and they shud be more n more stirct in this law cz it leaves very bad impact on budding brains ...

aik waqeya yaad aageya ... I was teaching in a school n we took primary section to Zoo and Safari Park here in Karachi ... it was obviously day time when park is lil off regarding families and we all know who goes then. we were going up to the highest point with kids and saw a couple sitting in b/w the way ... it was just bushes ..rock and all that since it was the back of the passage but LOVERS don't bother abt such things ... khair ... a kid from grade 4 pointed out them n said, "teacher wahan koee hey" ...was lil scared assuming ki someone hidden there n so ... and when we took a look we were like, Ohh!! ... we said kids nahi koee chupa nahi hey bas baethein hein ... n u know kids r kids ... ab un k sawalat shoro ... tu wahan kyun baethein hein ... wahan tu kuch unhey kaat bhi ley ga ... wo tu itni ****i jaga horahi hey bla bla :)

and we teachers were like zipped ... cz we can't tell them ki they r on Date so the chose a place where no possibility to be disturbed ... poor couple :)

kahirr ... 10, 000 misal hein aisi agar dhoondney pey aaey tu ... but we have been senseless in this regard.
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Aik aur baat yaad ayee which is an example for me and my siblings, yeh aur kissi ki nahi meray parents ki baat hay.

We were in Dubai back then and in those days when my eldest brother was only in FSc there came this video games mania! yeh he too with his friend started going there prettttttyyyyyyyy much! Earlier in that time he used to either go for football or to liabrary for making some notes. My mother somehow got suspicious of his activities and since she knew this would look bad if she herself go after him, she told my dad. Not only that she got a bit mad at my abu ji also coz my abu ji is a big time NEWS LOVER (just like most of dads! " Anyways she told him " Aap news suna kerain kul ko issi ka phal khana hay na aur aulaad ko jo marzi aayeh kernay dain, aapko patta hay Shahid aaj kul liabrary jata hay yaa foot ball ya kahin aur? " My abu ji got worried too and strated to follow him! As you all know kids happen to be a bit more clever than their parents my brother managed to dodge my baba jaan and dint get caught. But after sometime when he got relaxed that abu ji is not coming after him anymore my dad caught him RED HANDED! yeah he was in the middle of some game when baba jaan reached there and stood at his back he wanted to beat the heck out of him. And yes he took REAL SERIOUS NOTICE and reacted pretty mad at him!

We all siblings used to think "awww see how bad it is baba jaan could have made him understand some other way, he might be feeling sooo embarresed infront of his friends! bechara! Nobody among us could have thought what parents would have gone through. But today when we all are grown up and that same bhai of mine is going to be a Urologist soon inshaALLAH, when I have my own kid at hom but not a son though, I still think that was the BEST TREATMENT my father gave to him and my mother supported our dad!

So you see same is the case with dating and stuff, you dont give your children enough education of Deen then you cry! you dont educate them with VALUES and then you cry! You do not pay attention to their activities and then again its you who would cry at the end!
Exactly the same thing I was going to say at some other thread ki parents ki taraf sey sakhtiyaa'n bhi bohat aham role play kertein hein ... like jab tak aulaad k dil mey parents ki izzat and khauf hey they shud deal such things strictly ... but once they feel ki now their kid can cross this respect and fear line then they shud implement the other rule ... the other psychology ... and that is LOVE ... in tht scenario strictness might turned kids into rebelious ones so we shud deal them politely and letting them know that we love them and whtever we r saying is for their betterment.
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Agreed AQN! magar pyar bhi aik hud tuk hee hotta hay kahin parents ko extreme per jana per jata hay. Patta nahi yeh baba jaan ki halaa kamayee thi, maan ki khuli aankhain thin yaa dono ki terbiat yaa hum behen bhaion ki qismat keh uss waqiyeh kay baad although hum sub aapus may (except ammi baba jaan) beth keh iss baat per afsos kertay thay that baba jaan shouldnt have gone to this extreme. Magar one thing I have learned in life that my dad used to tell me when I was a kid and I was kind of afraid to believe in that CONFIDENTLY.

Wo kehtay hain humesha keh "Jub insaan kuch ACHIEVE ker leta hay na, tub wo confident ho jata hay to smile back on all small and big incidents that came along the hard road :) Iss liyeh girnay ki fiker mut kia kero kul tum iss qabil ho jaogie gee keh aaj jo batain tumhain toheen lagti hain kul ko unn per muskura sako, tub tumhain luggay ga kitnee bachgana baton say main derti thi"................ Aur aaj ALLAH ka shuker hay waqyee hum behen bhaion may say koi bhi siwaye uss incident per HASNAY aur ENJOY kernay kay kuch nahi kerta hay, rather aab to bhai ka apna aik baby hay mashaALLAH say and we tease him kul ko isko bhejo gey game center ;) ?
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And one more thing regarding govt! Dekhain beta govt kisi hud tuk to strict ho saakti hay aur hona bhi chahiyeh kion keh yeh hukamraan ki pooch ka sabub ban jayen gee . Magar wohi baat keh without BASIC education regarding all this from the VERY BEGINING and from the mother's lap, aisa mumkin hee nahi hay keh govt successful ho jayeh.

Take an example of Saudi Arabia, although I myself appreciate their efforts but still their girls have invented this SPECIAL eye makeup! which makes eyes even more beautiful in black niqab! and the dating thing is surviving some how too. So you see jub tuk parents PRACTICAL approach nahi rakhaingey deen ki taraf you and me would find a new reason everyday for this tabahi of society!
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Agreed AQN! magar pyar bhi aik hud tuk hee hotta hay kahin parents ko extreme per jana per jata hay. Patta nahi yeh baba jaan ki halaa kamayee thi, maan ki khuli aankhain thin yaa dono ki terbiat yaa hum behen bhaion ki qismat keh uss waqiyeh kay baad although hum sub aapus may (except ammi baba jaan) beth keh iss baat per afsos kertay thay that baba jaan shouldnt have gone to this extreme. Magar one thing I have learned in life that my dad used to tell me when I was a kid and I was kind of afraid to believe in that CONFIDENTLY.

Wo kehtay hain humesha keh "Jub insaan kuch ACHIEVE ker leta hay na, tub wo confident ho jata hay to smile back on all small and big incidents that came along the hard road :) Iss liyeh girnay ki fiker mut kia kero kul tum iss qabil ho jaogie gee keh aaj jo batain tumhain toheen lagti hain kul ko unn per muskura sako, tub tumhain luggay ga kitnee bachgana baton say main derti thi"................ Aur aaj ALLAH ka shuker hay waqyee hum behen bhaion may say koi bhi siwaye uss incident per HASNAY aur ENJOY kernay kay kuch nahi kerta hay, rather aab to bhai ka apna aik baby hay mashaALLAH say and we tease him kul ko isko bhejo gey game center ;) ?
jee I understand ur point ... I meant to say that there could be scenario, and it happens around us, that in tht kinda situation the young blood make it ego problem ...specially when its about misbehaving (from their point of view) in front of frnds ... so if parents have lil idea of it ... or if they knew their kids psychology that wht hits him/her more, then they shud react tht way ... well ur babajan must aware of the fact of his upbringing and wht he n ur mom incorporated in u all thats why his reaction was best then ... but it can't be implemented everyone ...
baqi ye tu fact hey ki at tht time we don't realize things but later on we end up like ki yes parents were rite ...
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And one more thing regarding govt! Dekhain beta govt kisi hud tuk to strict ho saakti hay aur hona bhi chahiyeh kion keh yeh hukamraan ki pooch ka sabub ban jayen gee . Magar wohi baat keh without BASIC education regarding all this from the VERY BEGINING and from the mother's lap, aisa mumkin hee nahi hay keh govt successful ho jayeh.

Take an example of Saudi Arabia, although I myself appreciate their efforts but still their girls have invented this SPECIAL eye makeup! which makes eyes even more beautiful in black niqab! and the dating thing is surviving some how too. So you see jub tuk parents PRACTICAL approach nahi rakhaingey deen ki taraf you and me would find a new reason everyday for this tabahi of society!
exactly ... n isi leye tu me kehti hoon ki sakhti bhi zaroori hey per sakhti k saath saath is baat ka kheyal bhi rakhna chahiyey ki uska nateeja kahan aur kaisey nikal raha hey ... sirf sakhti kerna per aagey peechay koee tarbiyat nahi ...tu bachchey najaez rastey dhoondtey hein apni khawhisho'n ko poora kernay k .... aur ye koee dhaki chuppi baat nahi k agar koee rastey nikalna chahey tu hazaar rastey hein wo sab kernay k jis sey usey mana kia geya ho ... terbiyat tu wo honi chahiyey k paabandi na honey k bawajood bhi wo kaam na kiya jaey ....

rahi baat Saudia ki tu sahi k unhoo'n apni us limit mey hi maximum kernay ki poori koshish ker li hey .... but still chahtey na chahtey huey bhi wo limits mey tu hein at least ... cz rebelious ones ka ratio considerable hey per aik general paband logoo'n k ratio sey zeyada nahi hey ... at least one positive point.
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duniya chand peh puhanch gayi hai aur hum abhi idhar hi atkay huay hain...samajh tu ap gayai hoon ge

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duniya chand peh puhanch gayi hai aur hum abhi idhar hi atkay huay hain...samajh tu ap gayai hoon ge

meri kaum sahi taraki karegi g i can see it shabash lagay raho...Pakistan zindabad yaqeenan :S
Beta ji … agar dunya chaand pey pohanch gaee hey to wo is leyey nahi k unhoo’n ney apna basic life style change ker liya … apni base sey hi hut gaey … ya apni pehchaan bilkul khatam ker dee
Hum agar peechay hein tu uski waja hey ki hamey doosroo’n k naqsh-e-qadam pey chalney ki lat pad chuki hey … chahey zindagi ka koee sa bhi pehloo ho … hum dooroo’n ki taqleed ko hi apni taraqqi manney lagey hein … aur bhol gaey k doosroo’n k qadmoo’n ki nishanaat pey chalney waley hamesha peechay hi rehtey hein aur rahein gey …

“kawaa chala hans ki chaal aur apni chaal bhi bhol geya” ya “na Khuda mila na wisal-e-sanam … na idhar k raehy na udhar k …” waali baatein hum pey bilkul saadiq aati hein
Aur sab sey ahum baat … agar chaand pey pohanchney ka matlab yehi hey k hum apni deeni aur dunyawi iqdaar bhol jaein aur her wo cheez apna lein jo taraqqi yaafta western countries mey horahi hey aur apni jadoo’n ko sirey sey kaat daalein … tu phir hum zameen pey hi achchey … itni badi qeemat dunya aur aakhirat dono mey adaa ker k koee bhi Musalman chaand pey pohanchney ki khawhish nahi karey ga kam az kam mujh jaisa ya mujh sey behtar shakhs tu hargiz nahii …

Ab zara is baat pey bhi nazar daal letey hein ki dosroo’n ki taraqqi ka raaz kia hey … hamari kam fehmi hey jo hum yey samajhtey hein k unki taraqqi ka raaz roshan kheyaali hey … apney matlab ki cheez ya baat her shakhs ko saaf dikhaee bhi deti hey aur sunee bhee … haa’nlaa’n ki jitni bhi qoumoo’n ney taraqqi ki (doesn’t matter whts their culture and how much they r liberal) wo unki Mehant, Lagan, Mulk-o-Qoum sey Eemandaari, apney logoo’n ki jaan-o-maal ki ehmiyat sey waqfiyat aur doosrey insaani taqazoo’n sey humaahangi ki badaulat hey … na ki for the reason that they date with opposite gender … they crossed all lines … there’s no concept of true relationship and all that.
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Well Guys,

Mein ne sab ke comments parrhey hain sab ne achhi batein ki hain,

Merey khayaal se is mein humara apna qasoor hai, i mean jo ghar mein elder persons hotey hain,

Abhi yeh cable pe aap logon ko pata bhi hai ke kesay programs chaltey hain phir bhi har ghar mein cable hai kiun??

kiun ke hum dekhna chahtey hain, aur phir youngsters bhi aadi ho jatey hain,

aur ussi mahol ko apnaney lagtey hain,

humein youngsters se baat karni ho gi aur unhein samjhana chahiye ke kya ghalat hai aur kya sahi
lekin hum log un se baat kartey huey dartey hain kiun ke jsi baat se hum log un ko mana kartey hain, hum khud bhi ussi burai ka shikaar hotey hain.

aur mein ZUBAIR bhai ka shukria adaa krta hoon ke unhon ne yeh topic start kiya,

mera bhi mood tha ke aisay kuchh topic start karoon,

lekin humarey forum pe kuchh modern muslim log bhi maujood hain, jo in baton ko tang nazri se tashbeeh detey hain,

Well Gud Effort i hope ke sab log na sahi lekin shayed kuchh logon ko is topic se bohat faida hoga, jinke ZAMEER abhi zinda hain
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Beta ji … agar dunya chaand pey pohanch gaee hey to wo is leyey nahi k unhoo’n ney apna basic life style change ker liya … apni base sey hi hut gaey … ya apni pehchaan bilkul khatam ker dee
Hum agar peechay hein tu uski waja hey ki hamey doosroo’n k naqsh-e-qadam pey chalney ki lat pad chuki hey … chahey zindagi ka koee sa bhi pehloo ho … hum dooroo’n ki taqleed ko hi apni taraqqi manney lagey hein … aur bhol gaey k doosroo’n k qadmoo’n ki nishanaat pey chalney waley hamesha peechay hi rehtey hein aur rahein gey …

“kawaa chala hans ki chaal aur apni chaal bhi bhol geya” ya “na Khuda mila na wisal-e-sanam … na idhar k raehy na udhar k …” waali baatein hum pey bilkul saadiq aati hein
Aur sab sey ahum baat … agar chaand pey pohanchney ka matlab yehi hey k hum apni deeni aur dunyawi iqdaar bhol jaein aur her wo cheez apna lein jo taraqqi yaafta western countries mey horahi hey aur apni jadoo’n ko sirey sey kaat daalein … tu phir hum zameen pey hi achchey … itni badi qeemat dunya aur aakhirat dono mey adaa ker k koee bhi Musalman chaand pey pohanchney ki khawhish nahi karey ga kam az kam mujh jaisa ya mujh sey behtar shakhs tu hargiz nahii …

Ab zara is baat pey bhi nazar daal letey hein ki dosroo’n ki taraqqi ka raaz kia hey … hamari kam fehmi hey jo hum yey samajhtey hein k unki taraqqi ka raaz roshan kheyaali hey … apney matlab ki cheez ya baat her shakhs ko saaf dikhaee bhi deti hey aur sunee bhee … haa’nlaa’n ki jitni bhi qoumoo’n ney taraqqi ki (doesn’t matter whts their culture and how much they r liberal) wo unki Mehant, Lagan, Mulk-o-Qoum sey Eemandaari, apney logoo’n ki jaan-o-maal ki ehmiyat sey waqfiyat aur doosrey insaani taqazoo’n sey humaahangi ki badaulat hey … na ki for the reason that they date with opposite gender … they crossed all lines … there’s no concept of true relationship and all that.
lolzzzz u completely took my words wrong...main aisa kuch b nahi bola tha...maine bas yehi kaha tha hum pakistani bas yehi te krnay mein lagay rahain ge sari umar...

jis kaum ne taraqi krni hoti hia us k pas itni fursat nahi hoti baatein krnay walay baatein krtay reh jatay hain aur krnay walay kr jatay hain i do believe it...main bas in behsun mein parnay ki bijayai apne huqooq aur farz pooray krnay mein zayda tawajuh deta hoon...
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lekin humarey forum pe kuchh modern muslim log bhi maujood hain, jo in baton ko tang nazri se tashbeeh detey hain,

Well Gud Effort i hope ke sab log na sahi lekin shayed kuchh logon ko is topic se bohat faida hoga, jinke ZAMEER abhi zinda hain

lolzzzzzzzzzzz hahahahahaha....bhai yeh ap jisko modern muslim keh rahay na usne Alhumdulillah 5 non-muslims ko muslim kiya hua hai...aur bhai jan main Hazrat Data Fareed shakar k silsalay se hoon aur apna sara bachpan aur education saudia se li hai...tu main modern muslim nahi ho sakta lol....iska yeh matlab nahi k main bara momin farmanbardar banda hoon...mera kaam hai bas pangay lena aur woh main leta rahun ga ;) u carry on wid ur discussion kabhi kabhi hansi mazak aur tanz-o-mazah se b kaam le lena chahiyai...so dun get so emotional...
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mera bhi mood tha ke aisay kuchh topic start karoon,

lekin humarey forum pe kuchh modern muslim log bhi maujood hain, jo in baton ko tang nazri se tashbeeh detey hain,

Well Gud Effort i hope ke sab log na sahi lekin shayed kuchh logon ko is topic se bohat faida hoga, jinke ZAMEER abhi zinda hain
Boss.. Ek advice for you.. jo baat aap ko sahi lagti hai woh kehne se hichkichao mat.. specially on forums.. coz we all are here to discuss and argue. Chup reh kar kya haasil karlenge aap? jo sahi lagta hai woh kaho. You can call me a modern muslim but i am ready to hear others opinion and i would love to discuss and learn.
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lolzzzz u completely took my words wrong...main aisa kuch b nahi bola tha...maine bas yehi kaha tha hum pakistani bas yehi te krnay mein lagay rahain ge sari umar...

jis kaum ne taraqi krni hoti hia us k pas itni fursat nahi hoti baatein krnay walay baatein krtay reh jatay hain aur krnay walay kr jatay hain i do believe it...main bas in behsun mein parnay ki bijayai apne huqooq aur farz pooray krnay mein zayda tawajuh deta hoon...
well agar baat sirf taey kernay ya na kernay ki hey tu phir theek ... but agar baat yey hey ki, jaisa bohat sey log sochtey hein k,
"choti choti baatoo'n pey dheyan mat do ... jo jaisey chal raha hey chalney do bas agar broad spectrum mey kuch ker saktey ho tu ker loo" ...

tu phir definitely one has to come across with such words as I said ... nothing is insignificant specially when it has anything to do with Religion ... if we can't make big changes in our self n in our surrounding, we at least can start with small ones ... from single unit ... if we can't do anything physically, we at least can high light and try to change perceptions through our words ... and things like that.

baqi achchi baat hey ki u focus more on action ...
wishing u me and all good luck for doing their part.
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aur mein ZUBAIR bhai ka shukria adaa krta hoon ke unhon ne yeh topic start kiya,

mera bhi mood tha ke aisay kuchh topic start karoon,

lekin humarey forum pe kuchh modern muslim log bhi maujood hain, jo in baton ko tang nazri se tashbeeh detey hain,

Well Gud Effort i hope ke sab log na sahi lekin shayed kuchh logon ko is topic se bohat faida hoga, jinke ZAMEER abhi zinda hain
Yea as u know something is better than nothing … atleast catharsis tu ho hi jata hey apna bhaley hi kisi k saameny iska aeteraaf karein ya na karein … asal mey bohat si aisi baatein hoti hein jin pey hum normally dheyaan nahi detey lekin jab kisi discussion mey wo baat saameny aati hey tu hamey aik mauqa mil jata hey us pehloo pey bhi gaur kernay ka … bohat sey naey dar khultey hein soch k … so discussion always bring significant changes.

N yea As Adi Pk said, it’s a forum for all so don’t ever hesitate to share ur views regarding something … maximum wht cud be done tht thread will be closed or deleted if won’t be as per rule … no worries … but quitting something just on the basis of this thought ki “few won’t like it, so am not going to do this” is not good..We can be general and polite so that nothing cud hurt others while having different perception never hurt others.
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lolzzzzzzzzzzz hahahahahaha....bhai yeh ap jisko modern muslim keh rahay na usne Alhumdulillah 5 non-muslims ko muslim kiya hua hai...aur bhai jan main Hazrat Data Fareed shakar k silsalay se hoon aur apna sara bachpan aur education saudia se li hai...tu main modern muslim nahi ho sakta lol....iska yeh matlab nahi k main bara momin farmanbardar banda hoon...mera kaam hai bas pangay lena aur woh main leta rahun ga ;) u carry on wid ur discussion kabhi kabhi hansi mazak aur tanz-o-mazah se b kaam le lena chahiyai...so dun get so emotional...
JAZAKALLAH Asjad ... ALLAH hum sab ko hidayat dey aur aisi taufeeq ata fermaey ... Aameen Summa Aameen ...

per is terha tu hum sab ka mazeed farz ban jata hey ki agar kaheen aap uncounsciously kuch ghalat soch rahein hoon ya kuch ghalat conceive ker liya ho tu wohi phir aagey paas hogee ... I hope u won't mind and being a Muslim u wud love to be guided if there's something going worng ...theek hey na!!!
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