male to female friendships !!

freeek · #1 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 10:48 AM

well, I hav seen number of times... whenever a male and a female becum friends, they mostly fall in Love wid each other.... If they stand by each other in bad times or whatever... that makes them think that they can be good life partners or so...
my Question is that, is it obvious that male to female friendship always ends at Love...? isnt it obnoxious sometimes...??
Im confused !!
Please share yur views....

Famqi · #2 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

well, I hav seen number of times... whenever a male and a female becum friends, they mostly fall in Love wid each other.... If they stand by each other in bad times or whatever... that makes them think that they can be good life partners or so...
my Question is that, is it obvious that male to female friendship always ends at Love...? isnt it obnoxious sometimes...??
Im confused !!
Please share yur views....

ye koi zaroori nahi, hota wahi hai jo aap kerna chahhe ager dono sirf dost bane rehna chahhte to bilkul dost reh sekte hain shert ye hai ki niyet saf honi chahiye actuly male-female frndship me amomen logon ki neeyaten saf nahi hoti ahin isiliye love-vove beech me aa jata ahi..

freeek · #3 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Famqi

ye koi zaroori nahi, hota wahi hai jo aap kerna chahhe ager dono sirf dost bane rehna chahhte to bilkul dost reh sekte hain shert ye hai ki niyet saf honi chahiye actuly male-female frndship me amomen logon ki neeyaten saf nahi hoti ahin isiliye love-vove beech me aa jata ahi..

well keh saktay hain lekin ... U must also consider the attraction nd that is natural.... baQi app ki baat bilkul theek hai...
lekin akser aisa hota dekha mainay ........

Famqi · #4 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

well keh saktay hain lekin ... U must also consider the attraction nd that is natural.... baQi app ki baat bilkul theek hai...
lekin akser aisa hota dekha mainay ........

hmm han atraction hota hai per apger aap khud pe qabo rakhen to to dosti misali ho sekti hai per akser log aisa ker anhi paate

freeek · #5 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Famqi

hmm han atraction hota hai per apger aap khud pe qabo rakhen to to dosti misali ho sekti hai per akser log aisa ker anhi paate

kinda .... hmmm.... true... sahi !! thanx for sharing ur view FamQI...

Desert_ Rules · #6 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 01:37 PM

agar sirf positive ho ke sochein tu... dosti khatam nahi hoti, love main bhi dosti hi rehti hai :-)

khier ye zarori bhi nahi ke, male female friendship ka end love pr ho. duniya main aur bhi kaam hain male female friendship couple ko love k siva :-)

freeek · #7 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 01:48 PM

besides, I hav seen so many friends getting married afterwards....!!

Famqi · #8 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

kinda .... hmmm.... true... sahi !! thanx for sharing ur view FamQI...

thanx n welcome

Desert_ Rules · #9 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

besides, I hav seen so many friends getting married afterwards....!!

:-) kewl...

problem kahan hai?

Lady Mystique · #10 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Desert_ Rules

:-) kewl...

problem kahan hai?

exactly?
not every male to female relationship ends up on love .... :)

honsetly speaking...ive had more male friends than females ... kabhi aisa koi scene nahin hua hai .... :)

agreed k it all depends on ur intentions... :)

Style Mantra · #11 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

besides, I hav seen so many friends getting married afterwards....!!

tu tum b kr lo

hahahahaha

freeek · #12 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by asjad_pisces

tu tum b kr lo

hahahahaha

sab ki raey to le loon

lol @ tum bhi ker lo hahhahaa

freeek · #13 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Mystique

exactly?
not every male to female relationship ends up on love .... :)

honsetly speaking...ive had more male friends than females ... kabhi aisa koi scene nahin hua hai .... :)

agreed k it all depends on ur intentions... :)

I agree wid U Lady Mistique , u xplained it well....

freeek · #14 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Desert_ Rules

:-) kewl...

problem kahan hai?

problem nai hai... jus having your views k kya in general friends DO fall in love... If they are compatible.... ya friendship ko hamesha friendship hi rakha jata hai... ?? that is my point...
won't u ever fall in Love wid yur friend if they are according to ur thoughts....??

Desert_ Rules · #15 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by freeek

problem nai hai... jus having your views k kya in general friends DO fall in love... If they are compatible.... ya friendship ko hamesha friendship hi rakha jata hai... ?? that is my point...
won't u ever fall in Love wid yur friend if they are according to ur thoughts....??

friendship ki bhi kuch limits hoti hain, male female friendship agar limits se out ho jaye aur wo batein bhi shoro ho jayein jo couple kr sakte hain tu wo fir dosti nahi kuch aur hi kuch ho jata hai.. jo ya tu shadi main convert ho jati hai, ya fir... eysa hota hai ke dosti tak khatam ho jati hai.

Decent friendship male female ki long term hoti hai.

freeek · #16 (**permalink**) 01-05-2008, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Desert_ Rules

friendship ki bhi kuch limits hoti hain, male female friendship agar limits se out ho jaye aur wo batein bhi shoro ho jayein jo couple kr sakte hain tu wo fir dosti nahi kuch aur hi kuch ho jata hai.. jo ya tu shadi main convert ho jati hai, ya fir... eysa hota hai ke dosti tak khatam ho jati hai.

Decent friendship male female ki long term hoti hai.

now thats a satisfying xplanation !!

very practical n realistic approach !