[isha_arian]

hey all of u
i am finding an answer 2 a question can plz som1 tell me tht y do som people tht u trust the most break ure trust ure hopes.

[Desert_ Rules]

acha sawal hai.. per samajh nahi aya... shied samajh nahi aya k kya likhna hai ...

[Sav3rA]

Aaap is sawal ke jawab ke liye buhat ghalat jaga aae hain
yahan to pehley hi her kisi ke dil mai yehi sawal hai

[Sav3rA]

Originally Posted by Desert_ Rules

acha sawal hai.. per samajh nahi aya... shied samajh nahi aya k kya likhna hai ...

tumhari samjh mai kabhi kuch aya hai ache sawalo ke liye

[isha_arian]

ager mera sawal already sab ke dilon main hai tu kya iss ka jawab itne sare members main se aik ke paas bhi nahin hai kya. kya kisi ko bhi nahin pata keh jab koi kissi ka trust torta hai tu woh aisa kiu kerta hai.

[Sav3rA]

Originally Posted by isha_arian

ager mera sawal already sab ke dilon main hai tu kya iss ka jawab itne sare members main se aik ke paas bhi nahin hai kya. kya kisi ko bhi nahin pata keh jab koi kissi ka trust torta hai tu woh aisa kiu kerta hai.

dekhe Isha muje nahi pata ke real bat kiya hai...lekin mai itna kahoo gi ke kaee bar jo baten hume lagti hain wo wesi hoti nahi..i mean ke agar kuch hota hai to hum sirf apni taraf se kuch bhi smajh lete hain us bat ko ke ksii ne hurt kia kisi ne trust toura kisi ne yeh kia wo kiya...hume us aghle bande ke point of view se bhi dekhna chahiye ke shayed usne hamari hi kisi bat ki ya hamari kisi ghalti ki waja se aesa kia ho..
aur agar us bat mai hamari koi ghalti bhi nahi phir bhi yeh sochna chahiye ke agar wo banda hamari life mai aesi jaga rakhta hai uske kuch karne se hum hurt hote hain ya agar wo waqee aesa hai jis pe humne Trust kia..isliye usne trust toura hai..to agar us ki itni value thee ke humne trust kia to humne usay maff kar dena chahiye..ya phir aik aur chance dena chahiye :)...
agar aghla banda gir jata hai to hum uski tarha gir to nahi sakte na ???hume to apna app ooper rakhna chahiye..ya to usay maff kar dena chhaiye ya usay aik aur chance dena chahiye :)...keu ke kaee bar humse bhi aesi ghaltiya hoti hai aur khud soche agar doosre bhi humse hamari tarha shikwe kar ke beth jaye to kesa lage ga hume??

[Desert_ Rules]

Originally Posted by isha_arian

ager mera sawal already sab ke dilon main hai tu kya iss ka jawab itne sare members main se aik ke paas bhi nahin hai kya. kya kisi ko bhi nahin pata keh jab koi kissi ka trust torta hai tu woh aisa kiu kerta hai.

Wo khud trust k kabil nahi hota.. is lie wo dosron ka trust toorta hai.. simple..

[Desert_ Rules]

Originally Posted by savera

tumhari samjh mai kabhi kuch aya hai ache sawalo ke liye

kuch kaha.??

dekhe Isha muje nahi pata ke real bat kiya hai...lekin mai itna kahoo gi ke kaee bar jo baten hume lagti hain wo wesi hoti nahi..i mean ke agar kuch hota hai to hum sirf apni taraf se kuch bhi smajh lete hain us bat ko ke ksii ne hurt kia kisi ne trust toura kisi ne yeh kia wo kiya...hume us aghle bande ke point of view se bhi dekhna chahiye ke shayed usne hamari hi kisi bat ki ya hamari kisi ghalti ki waja se aesa kia ho..
aur agar us bat mai hamari koi ghalti bhi nahi phir bhi yeh sochna chahiye ke agar wo banda hamari life mai aesi jaga rakhta hai uske kuch karne se hum hurt hote hain ya agar wo waqee aesa hai jis pe humne Trust kia..isliye usne trust toura hai..to agar us ki itni value thee ke humne trust kia to humne usay maff kar dena chahiye..ya phir aik aur chance dena chahiye :)...
agar aghla banda gir jata hai to hum uski tarha gir to nahi sakte na ???hume to apna app ooper rakhna chahiye..ya to usay maff kar dena chhaiye ya usay aik aur chance dena chahiye :)...keu ke kaee bar humse bhi aesi ghaltiya hoti hai aur khud soche agar doosre bhi humse hamari tarha shikwe kar ke beth jaye to kesa lage ga hume??

well said, apni marzi ka jawab dhondh lo isha

[La Ha$!L]

Originally Posted by savera

Aaap is sawal ke jawab ke liye buhat ghalat jaga aae hain
yahan to pehley hi her kisi ke dil mai yehi sawal hai

hahahahaa sahi kaha

[La Ha$!L]

its not abt hum jis ko ahmiyat dete hain woh kuon trsut torta hai... baat ye hai k trust hamaraa sabhi torte hain... lakin CHONKAY har banda hamaray liye aham nai hota.. we just ignore.. it or DOnt even realize... magar jis banday ko hum imprtance dete hain.. wahan expectations paida ho jaty hain.. ye sara kiya dhara hi expectations ka hai... agar hum bus acha kiye jain.. aur expectations BILKUL NAHI rakhain.. tau hum kabhi hurt na hon..magar we are humans ... hum achai kartay hain tau badlay main achai ki tawaku rakhtay hain... aur agar hamari tawaku k mutabik humain response na milay tau hum samjhtay hain.. hamara trust toota hai :) .. every1 is same... and every1 behaves same.. its U who dont give impirtance to some ppl and do give to others ...
I have often noticed ppl c0mplaining.. "agar ye A ki bajay B nay kiya hota tau main itna hurt na hota... magar A nay jo kiya main bhool nahi sakta" yahan se pata chalta hai k aik hi kaam agar koi aur kare au hum maf kar saktay hain.. ignore kar saktay hain..magar koi apna kare tau hum zyada hurt hotay hain... dar guzar karna mushkil hota hai.... its all abt ur expectations.. and i m not saying dont expect good when u do good with ppl.. lolz :) no i dont mean this.. i hope i made my point.