[minal18]

salamz fellow..
After a long break m heree:)
h r u allz
well my question is that k"Agar kisi larka/larki ki shadi hone wali ho aur last weeks aur last moment u can say us ko maloom hio k larka /larki kahin aur involve hai aur infact yeh shadi just ik compromise hai tou aap apne aap ko us jagha rakh ker sochain k wht will b ur decision Allah na karey k kiis k sath aisa ho ...............but just to discuss ....
waitin for ur serious replies


Regards
minal

[NonSense]

I think it would be better to be safe than sorry and living life in sacrifices.

Either ask clear cut, and get out from this awkward situation, involve elder who have made your connection.

Marriage is not a peace of cake nor a play ground where there is always another match nor any course if you fail you have chance to reappear.

If I will be in this situation i will be honest to myself and to my partner and will not get married till partner assure and guarantee, in all these process i will involve elders from both side.

[minal18]

hhmmmm brilliant answer....

[Khu$h!]

Originally Posted by NonSense

I think it would be better to be safe than sorry and living life in sacrifices.

Either ask clear cut, and get out from this awkward situation, involve elder who have made your connection.

Marriage is not a peace of cake nor a play ground where there is always another match nor any course if you fail you have chance to reappear.

If I will be in this situation i will be honest to myself and to my partner and will not get married till partner assure and guarantee, in all these process i will involve elders from both side.

sometimes it's not as easy as that...pple are not alwayz honest...sometimes circustances make u take a step which u may regret for the rest of ur lyf...wot can one do in those situations?

[NonSense]

Originally Posted by Khu$h!

sometimes it's not as easy as that...pple are not alwayz honest...sometimes circustances make u take a step which u may regret for the rest of ur lyf...wot can one do in those situations?

well it is not your partner fault then as you went ahead and tie knot after knowing all truth, so you cant complain to your partner then! :)

[La Ha$!L]

wEse dekha jai tau.... Kitnay Log btatay hain apnay parents ko k hUm kiis ko pasand karte hain?? in Pakistan specially, parents aur bachon k beach itna friendly mahool Bohat Kum hota hai..jis Ki wajah se bachay Dil KI baat Dil main hi rakhtay hain .. lakin I would say ..agar aap main strict parents k honay k bawajood kisi ko pyar ya pasand karnay ki himat hai tau ... take a step ahead and tell your parebts! baray baray dekhay hain.. affairs tau chala laitay hain magar shadi nahi karte.. ghar walon ko nahi btaatay garajtay hi hain...barastay nahi...aaj kal tau 17 18 saal ki age k bachay bi pasand karnay lagay hain.. magar bataata kon hai?... No one.. sab Dhokay de jatay hain.. aur shadi k baad asal mamlaa pata chalta hai!


MINAL
ermmmmm as you said apnay aap ko is situation main rakh kar dekahin.. tau main foran ghar walon Ko bataongy .. aur CHonkay shadi jald honay wali hai tau i will try my best k shadi mERi taraf se mana karnay par HI Tootay .. warna agar larkay nay aakhir time par bata diya parents ko tau shadi toot tau jaigi..uski tau shadi ho jai...magar shaayad mairy kabhi na HO hahhahahha....LOg kahain gay pata nahi kay aaib tha larki main..jo aakhir main aa kar achanak baat khatam kar di ..ab aik aik rishtadaar aur mohalay dar ko pakar kar tau batanay se rahay k larkay sahab ki marzi kahin aur thi... i think is main bi insult apni hi hai

[winter]

welsaid but some in some point i didtn agree..

[La Ha$!L]

Originally Posted by winter

welsaid but some in some point i didtn agree..

explain plz kahan se agree nahi karty HO tussi

[minal18]

Originally Posted by La Ha$!L

wEse dekha jai tau.... Kitnay Log btatay hain apnay parents ko k hUm kiis ko pasand karte hain?? in Pakistan specially, parents aur bachon k beach itna friendly mahool Bohat Kum hota hai..jis Ki wajah se bachay Dil KI baat Dil main hi rakhtay hain .. lakin I would say ..agar aap main strict parents k honay k bawajood kisi ko pyar ya pasand karnay ki himat hai tau ... take a step ahead and tell your parebts! baray baray dekhay hain.. affairs tau chala laitay hain magar shadi nahi karte.. ghar walon ko nahi btaatay garajtay hi hain...barastay nahi...aaj kal tau 17 18 saal ki age k bachay bi pasand karnay lagay hain.. magar bataata kon hai?... No one.. sab Dhokay de jatay hain.. aur shadi k baad asal mamlaa pata chalta hai!


MINAL
ermmmmm as you said apnay aap ko is situation main rakh kar dekahin.. tau main foran ghar walon Ko bataongy .. aur CHonkay shadi jald honay wali hai tau i will try my best k shadi mERi taraf se mana karnay par HI Tootay .. warna agar larkay nay aakhir time par bata diya parents ko tau shadi toot tau jaigi..uski tau shadi ho jai...magar shaayad mairy kabhi na HO hahhahahha....LOg kahain gay pata nahi kay aaib tha larki main..jo aakhir main aa kar achanak baat khatam kar di ..ab aik aik rishtadaar aur mohalay dar ko pakar kar tau batanay se rahay k larkay sahab ki marzi kahin aur thi... i think is main bi insult apni hi hai

ahan nice reply....well its better k larki khud mana kardey but pata hia kia hota kia hai larkion ko parents ki izat ka bohut khayal hota hai aur logon ki baton ka bhi tou woh batati nahi hain aue yeh soch ker k baad main sab better hojayega ......

[Kool Guy]

pehlay to un k sath baith ker ... long discussion kerna parayga .... us k baad koi decission longa

[minal18]

long discussions:S@ KG

[La Ha$!L]

Originally Posted by Kool Guy

pehlay to un k sath baith ker ... long discussion kerna parayga .... us k baad koi decission longa

maamla kharab howa hoga... aur u ko UN k sath beth kar duscussion ki pari hai