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23-07-2008, 05:42 PM
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i need help from u guyss
there is this situation
aik lerka hai sunni
aik lerki hai shia
dono mohabbat kerty hain aik dosry sy
families nae maan rehean
bohot samjhaya .. dono families kisi terh naee maan rehain ..
thy both r not marrying anywhere else jab k shadi aik sunnt hai
in this case what thy have to do ??
cant live with out eachother
bhag ker shadi lerki nae kerna chahti
kaheen naa kaheen khuch to aisa hoga jiss sy dono families man jaien??
if anyone has any thing to say abut this matter plzzz say it
this is ajj ke haqeekat , this is true ... laila majnoo aj b zinda hain huhhh
i really want to help thm
plzz help me if any1 has any dalal regarding this issue |
23-07-2008, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by eleni  i need help from u guyss
there is this situation
aik lerka hai sunni
aik lerki hai shia
dono mohabbat kerty hain aik dosry sy
families nae maan rehean
bohot samjhaya .. dono families kisi terh naee maan rehain ..
thy both r not marrying anywhere else jab k shadi aik sunnt hai
in this case what thy have to do ??
cant live with out eachother
bhag ker shadi lerki nae kerna chahti
kaheen naa kaheen khuch to aisa hoga jiss sy dono families man jaien??
if anyone has any thing to say abut this matter plzzz say it
this is ajj ke haqeekat , this is true ... laila majnoo aj b zinda hain huhhh
i really want to help thm
plzz help me if any1 has any dalal regarding this issue | Hmmmm, I actually have something to say about this issue but first I'd like to see how other people respond to this |
23-07-2008, 05:54 PM
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SimplE...
dOnO kay aik aik chmmat lagaO!!! 
Oh i'm sOrry main GuarAntY shUda hOn!!! 
DaikhiyE mOhtErma...  Un dOnO kO samjhaiyE aap baligh hO chUkay hain so faisla wOhi hOga jO aap ka hai... Magar Lilaah khiaal rakhiyE ga kay aap dOnO alag nahi aap ki familY bhi hain aap kay sath...  Or un sE kahiyE ga... Bachay maa baap ki jaan hOti hai... sO "jaan ji" Oh i mEan jaan kO black mail kijiyE InshALLAH afaaQa hOga!  Or hAAn Un sE kahiyE ga... Agar bhaaga nahi ja raha tO... MaYa naam ki aik larki aap kO bhagaanay mEin hElp kEr sakti hai! wOh kYa hai na... i lUv laila majnU!
__________________ Aisa kyOn lagaY hAi...JaisaY kUch AdhOra...
wOh chaand hai mUkamal,kyOn na lagta pOra... 
AnkhOn ki cEEpi mEin khwabOn kay mOti hain...
mOti TarrastaY hain,pYaar kaY liY... Kabhi sOcha hAi kYa...??? |
23-07-2008, 11:07 PM
|  | Naam to suna hoga !! | | Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Karachi
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Rep Power: 4 | | | Mera ek dost hai.. uss ke saath bhi same scene hai... woh sunni hai aur larki shiya... uss ne poora duniya se panga liya (including his own family) kisi ki nahi suni.. kuch doston se, kuch rishtedaron se.. ghar walon se.. sab ke against gaya... aur finally... uss ne ghar walon ko mana liya... aur larki ne apne ghar walon ko (inn ki love story mei thori bohat help mein ne bhi ki :) ) khair.. kuch dino mei mera friend larki ke ghar apni family ko bhejega.. dekho kya hota hai.. dono families ne istekhara bhi nikalwa liya aur istekhara unn ki favor mei hai :)
Please dua karna unn ke liye... |  |
24-07-2008, 03:16 AM
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aik or addition ...
keep that in mind ..
laila is in canada
majnoo is UK ruturn in pakistan |
24-07-2008, 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted by DIYA_786 Hmmmm, I actually have something to say about this issue but first I'd like to see how other people respond to this | dia jee waqat kaam time ziyada haiii .. bool deen jo b dil may ayeeee... | | | |
24-07-2008, 03:27 AM
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Originally Posted by MaYa.000 SimplE...
dOnO kay aik aik chmmat lagaO!!!
Oh i'm sOrry main GuarAntY shUda hOn!!!
DaikhiyE mOhtErma... Un dOnO kO samjhaiyE aap baligh hO chUkay hain so faisla wOhi hOga jO aap ka hai... Magar Lilaah khiaal rakhiyE ga kay aap dOnO alag nahi aap ki familY bhi hain aap kay sath... Or un sE kahiyE ga... Bachay maa baap ki jaan hOti hai... sO "jaan ji" Oh i mEan jaan kO black mail kijiyE InshALLAH afaaQa hOga! Or hAAn Un sE kahiyE ga... Agar bhaaga nahi ja raha tO... MaYa naam ki aik larki aap kO bhagaanay mEin hElp kEr sakti hai! wOh kYa hai na... i lUv laila majnU! | kia baat hai samny hoty tu lagati .. daba ker per samny naee....
tu gurante per he hony walli hoo gurantee khatam tuu baan
blk maillll haahahaahah .. acha suppose kaisyyy .. khuch idea daina pasand karengi
bhagany ko tu lerka bhaga saktaa .. per lerki ke merzi naee naaa...
tu LUV ko side per rekh tyy demagh say sooocchh :sg9: | | | | |
24-07-2008, 03:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Adi_pk Mera ek dost hai.. uss ke saath bhi same scene hai... woh sunni hai aur larki shiya... uss ne poora duniya se panga liya (including his own family) kisi ki nahi suni.. kuch doston se, kuch rishtedaron se.. ghar walon se.. sab ke against gaya... aur finally... uss ne ghar walon ko mana liya... aur larki ne apne ghar walon ko (inn ki love story mei thori bohat help mein ne bhi ki :) ) khair.. kuch dino mei mera friend larki ke ghar apni family ko bhejega.. dekho kya hota hai.. dono families ne istekhara bhi nikalwa liya aur istekhara unn ki favor mei hai :)
Please dua karna unn ke liye... | adii us ny panga kia liyaa???bateyengy??
manaya kaisyy wo tareeqa bataen pljjjj
ALLAH un ke families ko hidayat dy n sulah ho jaiee meri tu yahi dwa hai un k liyay b or mery laila majno k liyay b .
yay istekhara kaisy kerty hain .. koe meko b bataie pljjjj
dwein tu saaab k liyay hain
ALLAH is terh mohabbat nae kerwaieee | | | | |
25-07-2008, 09:40 AM
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Eleni, I dont know ke tum ne sanjeedgi se ye mashwara manga hai, ya mehez fun ke tehet. Mager main is ko aik sanjeeda masla tasawwer kertey huwey apni rae ka izhar kerta hoon.
Beta, aap ne kaha ke shadi sunnat hai, to sub se pehley to aap baqi batain chor ker apney mazhab ki basics ki janib aayen. Hamara mazhab jahan humain apni zindagi ka sathi chunney ka haq deta hai, wahin per humain walidain ke her hukam ke aagey sir jhukaney ka ders bhi deta hai. Her hukam, yani ke siwae shirk ke aur aisey hukam ke jo Rasool SAW aur Allah SWT ke batae huwye rastey se duur ho, aulad per ferz hai ke wo UFFF bhi na karey aur bila choon charaan us hukam ko baja lae.
Aulad ye bhool jati hai ke yeh wohi walidain hain jinhon ne ussey paida kiya, paal pos ke bara kiya, raaton ko jaag ke khidmat ki, beemari ki halat main takleef berdasht ki aur apna pait kaat ker apni khaahishat ka gala ghoont ke aulad ko aaj is kabil banaya hai ke wo apney hi walidain se TAKKER leney ke kabil hui. I really personally despise all such kids that either talk back to their parents or are a menace to their parents.
Ub jo masla aap ne bayan kiya hai, is main kai points aisey hain jo shariah ke khilaf hain. Sub se pehla aur bara point hai ke wo insaan jis ne Allah Tallah ki bheji hui shariat ko nakis tasawwer kertey huwey us main innovations kiin, wo daera islam se kharij huwa. Kufr ke baad ye sub se bara gunnah hai jis ko urf e aam main biddat kehtey hain. Biddat ke baad, jis ne bhi mazhab main division ki, firqa bandi ki, wo Allah Tallah ke azaab ka haqdaar huwa. In other words beta, ye sunni shia, devbandi barelvi this is NOTHING. Ye sub kuch nahin hai. Insaanon ka aur islam dushman logon ka phailaya huwa mehez aik fitna hai.
Rasool SAW ke last sermon ko aik baar phir ghaur se perho, jis main saaf saaf kaha gaya hai ke kisi gorey ko kaley per, kaley ko gorey per, amer ko ghareeb per ghareeb ko ameer per, ajami ko arabi per arabi ko ajami per, koi bertari nahin. Bertari sirf aur sirf TAQWA main hai. To is hawaley se jo apney firqy ko behter girdantey hain wo SAREEHAN ghalat hain aur un ke liyeh roz e hashar aik intehai azaab naak daemi zindagi muntazir hai.
In bacchon ke hawaley se main yehi kahoonga ke inhain samjhao ke itni shadeed mohabbat ager ALLAH SWT se karogey to aakhirat main nijaat paogey, werna zillat o khuwari hi hissey main aegi. Insan hain sub ho jata hai piyar bhi mohabbat bi, mager hamara mazhab aitedaal ka ders deta hai. Ager walidain nahin mantey hain, to unhain samjhao ke beta wo bacchey jo maan baap ka dil dukha ker apni khushiyan hasil kertey hain, un ke hissey main sirf pashemani hi aati hai aur wo khushiyan mehez SARAB sabit hoti hain.
Therefore, mera mashwara ye hai ke in dono ko na-mehramon ki terhaan rehna chahiyeh hai aur ager walidain nahin mantey to jahan walidain razi hon, ghar wahin basana chahiyeh hai.
And Allah SWT knows best. | |
25-07-2008, 07:53 PM
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Saloon Ka Bhoot Uttar Jaye Ga Pyar Ka!!!!!!!!
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25-07-2008, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Emblem99 Assalam alaikam.
Eleni, I dont know ke tum ne sanjeedgi se ye mashwara manga hai, ya mehez fun ke tehet. Mager main is ko aik sanjeeda masla tasawwer kertey huwey apni rae ka izhar kerta hoon.
Beta, aap ne kaha ke shadi sunnat hai, to sub se pehley to aap baqi batain chor ker apney mazhab ki basics ki janib aayen. Hamara mazhab jahan humain apni zindagi ka sathi chunney ka haq deta hai, wahin per humain walidain ke her hukam ke aagey sir jhukaney ka ders bhi deta hai. Her hukam, yani ke siwae shirk ke aur aisey hukam ke jo Rasool SAW aur Allah SWT ke batae huwye rastey se duur ho, aulad per ferz hai ke wo UFFF bhi na karey aur bila choon charaan us hukam ko baja lae.
Aulad ye bhool jati hai ke yeh wohi walidain hain jinhon ne ussey paida kiya, paal pos ke bara kiya, raaton ko jaag ke khidmat ki, beemari ki halat main takleef berdasht ki aur apna pait kaat ker apni khaahishat ka gala ghoont ke aulad ko aaj is kabil banaya hai ke wo apney hi walidain se TAKKER leney ke kabil hui. I really personally despise all such kids that either talk back to their parents or are a menace to their parents.
Ub jo masla aap ne bayan kiya hai, is main kai points aisey hain jo shariah ke khilaf hain. Sub se pehla aur bara point hai ke wo insaan jis ne Allah Tallah ki bheji hui shariat ko nakis tasawwer kertey huwey us main innovations kiin, wo daera islam se kharij huwa. Kufr ke baad ye sub se bara gunnah hai jis ko urf e aam main biddat kehtey hain. Biddat ke baad, jis ne bhi mazhab main division ki, firqa bandi ki, wo Allah Tallah ke azaab ka haqdaar huwa. In other words beta, ye sunni shia, devbandi barelvi this is NOTHING. Ye sub kuch nahin hai. Insaanon ka aur islam dushman logon ka phailaya huwa mehez aik fitna hai.
Rasool SAW ke last sermon ko aik baar phir ghaur se perho, jis main saaf saaf kaha gaya hai ke kisi gorey ko kaley per, kaley ko gorey per, amer ko ghareeb per ghareeb ko ameer per, ajami ko arabi per arabi ko ajami per, koi bertari nahin. Bertari sirf aur sirf TAQWA main hai. To is hawaley se jo apney firqy ko behter girdantey hain wo SAREEHAN ghalat hain aur un ke liyeh roz e hashar aik intehai azaab naak daemi zindagi muntazir hai.
In bacchon ke hawaley se main yehi kahoonga ke inhain samjhao ke itni shadeed mohabbat ager ALLAH SWT se karogey to aakhirat main nijaat paogey, werna zillat o khuwari hi hissey main aegi. Insan hain sub ho jata hai piyar bhi mohabbat bi, mager hamara mazhab aitedaal ka ders deta hai. Ager walidain nahin mantey hain, to unhain samjhao ke beta wo bacchey jo maan baap ka dil dukha ker apni khushiyan hasil kertey hain, un ke hissey main sirf pashemani hi aati hai aur wo khushiyan mehez SARAB sabit hoti hain.
Therefore, mera mashwara ye hai ke in dono ko na-mehramon ki terhaan rehna chahiyeh hai aur ager walidain nahin mantey to jahan walidain razi hon, ghar wahin basana chahiyeh hai.
And Allah SWT knows best. |
I Am Totaly Agreed With Nadeem Bhai...
Meri Dil Ki Baat Unhon Ne Bayan Kardi .
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25-07-2008, 08:12 PM
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01-08-2008, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Emblem99 Assalam alaikam.
Eleni, I dont know ke tum ne sanjeedgi se ye mashwara manga hai, ya mehez fun ke tehet. Mager main is ko aik sanjeeda masla tasawwer kertey huwey apni rae ka izhar kerta hoon.
Beta, aap ne kaha ke shadi sunnat hai, to sub se pehley to aap baqi batain chor ker apney mazhab ki basics ki janib aayen. Hamara mazhab jahan humain apni zindagi ka sathi chunney ka haq deta hai, wahin per humain walidain ke her hukam ke aagey sir jhukaney ka ders bhi deta hai. Her hukam, yani ke siwae shirk ke aur aisey hukam ke jo Rasool SAW aur Allah SWT ke batae huwye rastey se duur ho, aulad per ferz hai ke wo UFFF bhi na karey aur bila choon charaan us hukam ko baja lae.
Aulad ye bhool jati hai ke yeh wohi walidain hain jinhon ne ussey paida kiya, paal pos ke bara kiya, raaton ko jaag ke khidmat ki, beemari ki halat main takleef berdasht ki aur apna pait kaat ker apni khaahishat ka gala ghoont ke aulad ko aaj is kabil banaya hai ke wo apney hi walidain se TAKKER leney ke kabil hui. I really personally despise all such kids that either talk back to their parents or are a menace to their parents.
Ub jo masla aap ne bayan kiya hai, is main kai points aisey hain jo shariah ke khilaf hain. Sub se pehla aur bara point hai ke wo insaan jis ne Allah Tallah ki bheji hui shariat ko nakis tasawwer kertey huwey us main innovations kiin, wo daera islam se kharij huwa. Kufr ke baad ye sub se bara gunnah hai jis ko urf e aam main biddat kehtey hain. Biddat ke baad, jis ne bhi mazhab main division ki, firqa bandi ki, wo Allah Tallah ke azaab ka haqdaar huwa. In other words beta, ye sunni shia, devbandi barelvi this is NOTHING. Ye sub kuch nahin hai. Insaanon ka aur islam dushman logon ka phailaya huwa mehez aik fitna hai.
Rasool SAW ke last sermon ko aik baar phir ghaur se perho, jis main saaf saaf kaha gaya hai ke kisi gorey ko kaley per, kaley ko gorey per, amer ko ghareeb per ghareeb ko ameer per, ajami ko arabi per arabi ko ajami per, koi bertari nahin. Bertari sirf aur sirf TAQWA main hai. To is hawaley se jo apney firqy ko behter girdantey hain wo SAREEHAN ghalat hain aur un ke liyeh roz e hashar aik intehai azaab naak daemi zindagi muntazir hai.
In bacchon ke hawaley se main yehi kahoonga ke inhain samjhao ke itni shadeed mohabbat ager ALLAH SWT se karogey to aakhirat main nijaat paogey, werna zillat o khuwari hi hissey main aegi. Insan hain sub ho jata hai piyar bhi mohabbat bi, mager hamara mazhab aitedaal ka ders deta hai. Ager walidain nahin mantey hain, to unhain samjhao ke beta wo bacchey jo maan baap ka dil dukha ker apni khushiyan hasil kertey hain, un ke hissey main sirf pashemani hi aati hai aur wo khushiyan mehez SARAB sabit hoti hain.
Therefore, mera mashwara ye hai ke in dono ko na-mehramon ki terhaan rehna chahiyeh hai aur ager walidain nahin mantey to jahan walidain razi hon, ghar wahin basana chahiyeh hai.
And Allah SWT knows best. | sorry for late reply ....may ap ke her aik baat say mutafik hon. i was n i am really serious abut this matter ..
mujy maa baap ka hakook b pata hain n unhain b. tabi tu koe galat qadam very maturity ke waja say utha nae rahy .. per .. jo maa baap ratoon ko uth uth ker .. apna peaith caat ker .. apni ker khuwahisah ko chor ker bachon ke poorii kerny walla maa baap .. iss baat ko kaisy abi bhool rahy hain k k yay wohi ollad hai or jo kah rahi hai us may uss ke khusi b tu shamil hai ... jab bachy ka face per smile ati hai tu maa baap n hans daity hain.. tu kiyu wo samj nae paa rahy k yay wohi olaad hai n jis k face per dhukh hai .. kerny ko tu dono shadi kahen or ker laingy per khushi sy nae .. in ko khush kerny k liyay .... tu yay na insafi nae???  | |
01-08-2008, 04:11 PM
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I Am Totaly Agreed With Nadeem Bhai...
Meri Dil Ki Baat Unhon Ne Bayan Kardi . | ap k dil may khuch reh gaya hai tu wo b bata dain plzzz |
01-08-2008, 04:12 PM
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02-08-2008, 05:15 AM
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Rep Power: 14 | | | eleni beta, ye walidain ka masla hai ke wo is baat ko kiyun nahin samajh rahey hain:)
aap aik baat achi terhaan zeheh nasheen ker lain guriya, ke jo jawani main insaan ke ander dum kham hota hai, age ke saath saath wo na sirf kum hota jata hai, bulkey insaan jitna boorha hota hai, ander se utna hi kamzor.
aulad beshuk kuch bhi kahey, walidain is baat ko nafermani se ager tabeer ker lain gey to batao phir wo bacchey qayamat ke din kiya munh dikhaengey Allah Tallah ko?:)
Guriya, aap ko reason kerney se nahin rok raha hoon. nihayat izzat o ehteraam se ke saath walidain se reasoning zaroor kerain aur un ko adab o adaab ki roshni main kayel kerney ki koshish bhi kerain, mager itna yaad rakhain ke jo wo apni baat na badlain to it does not give the permission to the kids ke wo apni merzi kerain.
beta, baccha maan baap se koi dus hazar sawalaat kerta hai, us ki tamaam problems ko walidain apney zimmey le letey hain jub wo unhain khud solve kerney ke kabil nahin hota:). aisi soorat main, jub walidain kamzor aur aulad taqatwar ho jae, to it doesnt mean ke ub aulad khudsir ho gai hai to if parents are not willing, they can go out and do live their own lives. Ye western moashra to ho sakta hai, islamic moashra nahin:). specially in these days parents need their children to listen to them:).
Beta, efforts kerain, efforts se koi nahin rokta, mafer wo efforts aisey na hon ke un se gustakhi ki aur khudsari ki boo ae:). aur bascially duniya ke kanoon ke tehet un bacchon ko koi nahin rok sakta, wo baligh hain to apni merzi ker saktey hain, mager itna yaad rakhain ke aik to aakhirat main un se kara sawal hoga, aur doosra ye ke walidain ke naferman bacchon ko issi duniya main MAKAFAT e AMAL se go through kerna parega. Wo kis roop main un ke samney ata hai ye sirf Allah Tallah ko maloom hai:). To un bacchon se poochna ke un ki khashish itni ziada powerful hai ke is it worth all this?:) | | | | |
15-08-2008, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by eleni i need help from u guyss
there is this situation
aik lerka hai sunni
aik lerki hai shia
dono mohabbat kerty hain aik dosry sy
families nae maan rehean
bohot samjhaya .. dono families kisi terh naee maan rehain ..
thy both r not marrying anywhere else jab k shadi aik sunnt hai
in this case what thy have to do ??
cant live with out eachother
bhag ker shadi lerki nae kerna chahti
kaheen naa kaheen khuch to aisa hoga jiss sy dono families man jaien??
if anyone has any thing to say abut this matter plzzz say it
this is ajj ke haqeekat , this is true ... laila majnoo aj b zinda hain huhhh
i really want to help thm
plzz help me if any1 has any dalal regarding this issue |
Hmm!!.......... you should take permission before you gonna help some one out baby doll!!!.................... 1st let me read the permission letter!...... then i Can say somthing!!.......... Desmiss for now!!!...........
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16-08-2008, 12:12 AM
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Rep Power: 0 | | | duniya ki parwaah na karo ....shadi karlo...duniyaa wale khud b khud wakt ke hisaab se theek ho jaaeingee..jo dil kahe wohi karo.. | | | |
16-08-2008, 12:27 AM
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Rep Power: 9 | | | Eleni meray pass Is ka Complete solution nahi.. aur Zaroori nahi K jaisa main sochon baqee Log bhi sochain. So main yahan aak baat kerna chahon ge Jo k bohat sensitive hay aur Jise sab se Pahlay Mind main rakhna chahiye. yahan Bohat se Logo ne kaha k bhaag ker shadi ker lain... apne merzi keran.. etc etc
Yah decisions baad k hain... pahlay is baat ko samjhna chahiye k un ki families na Inkaar kyun kia yah woh kyun nahi maan rahay Obviously "MASLAQ" is the basic Issue. shadi aak aisa rishta hay Jis main sab se pahlay religious point of view se sochna aur dekhna chahiye. Heart feelings apne Jagha But Relogious main aise cheezon ki Gunjaish bohat baad main aati hay. Jahan compromize bhi kerna perta hay aur Secrifice bhi.
In short if they Can Undestand this Main Point n if religious point of view keep Importance n periority for them then they should decide in the Light of Islam. Conflicts arise when we Ignor somethings n Jus decide about One. If we keep all in sight then issues become minor n narrow. | | |
