[noshi urooj]

Hi friends, I m asking one questions from all of u that " Mohabbat shadi se pehle kerni chahiye ya shadi k baad apni wife se" Please apne comments zaroor dain.

[noshi urooj]

please apni apni openion zaroor dain.

[Khu$h!]

[Waiting-Eyes]

pyar pyar hota hai.. zabardasti na to shadi say pehlay kiya ja sakta hai..na shadi k baad... and ager hona ho to shadi say pehlay bhe nahi roka ja sakta ... aur na shadi k baad...

[Narcissus]

Originally posted by Waiting-Eyes
pyar pyar hota hai.. zabardasti na to shadi say pehlay kiya ja sakta hai..na shadi k baad... and ager hona ho to shadi say pehlay bhe nahi roka ja sakta ... aur na shadi k baad...

I agree to Waiting-eyes

[kamz]

Love is Love

[Im_Sha]

After Marriage

Wo Bhi

With Wife

[virgo]

shadi say pehlay .. may be 1 or 2 percent logon ko wakee main love ho jata ho ..... but mostly it s not love it s just time pass , flirt or entertainment .... wateva u call it....
but after marriage ...!! if u develope love with ur wife .. that will not only be free of all impurities like flirt etc.... rather it will make ur life more beautiful by adding colours and joys of love after marriage.... as it will not be having a stigma of dejectedness which is normally there becoz one has the back ground of a lost love b4 marriage...!!!!

[Sina khan]

hmm wesay i think k shaade se pehy bht kamm logo ko sacha piyaar hota ahi bht bht bht kumm logo ko// true love shaadi k baad hi hota hia n wid WIFE..!! doosri girlz se nahi hehehe lolzz

[zabeed shah]

:shahdi say palay jo payar hota hai us payar ka maza kuch ohor hota hai but usel payar shahdi k bad hota hai with wife ok,/// aksar jab hum kisi ko yaad karte hain aapne rab se yehi faryaad kartay hain umar hamari b lag jaaye unko jin ko jin ko hum payar kartay hain................by by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,noshi urooj je

[chandni kanwal]

hmmm nice question yar
pyar shadi se pehle bhi ho sakta hai q k is per kisi ka ikhtiyar nahi hai lekin ye baat sahi hai sacha pyar shadi k baad hi ho sakta hai

[Lady Mystique]

hi
i agree wd waiting eyes...
pyar hona ho to usse waaqiye koi nahin rok sakta ... pehle ho ya baad mein.. wife se ho yaa...
kidding :)

[chunkykitkat]

shaadi ke pehle kis ko pyaar nahn hota ....chahe woh ise affection samjhe ya pyaar......but if u dont get ur love then u must b sincere to ur wife and give her the love which is her right.................right?

[Ali Imam]

Love pahlay hona chahyay ya bad main. mairay khyal main love koi aise cheez nahen jis per her aik ka zor ho. yah khod ba khod hota hai, sometimes pahley nazar main hota hai, sometimes kisi ke dosti mohbat main badal jate hai baz dafea kisi say bicharnay k bad ahsas hota hai k ap to us ke shadeed mohbat main griftar hain. So no one can do love by his own but it happens. Waisay hona to yahe chahyay k love sirf apne wife say he krna chahyay warna tmam zindage azab main guzarte hai. I alwayz thought that loving some 1 was the greatest feeling, but now I realized that loving a friend is even better. We lose people we love but we never ever lose true friends.

[La Ha$!L]

Originally Posted by Sina khan

hmm wesay i think k shaade se pehy bht kamm logo ko sacha piyaar hota ahi bht bht bht kumm logo ko// true love shaadi k baad hi hota hia n wid WIFE..!! doosri girlz se nahi hehehe lolzz

WESE tau Shadi k baad bhi BOhat KUm LOgo ko sacha pyar hota hai.......... Zyada tar t\au Compromise hota hai..na bhi ho tau bhi pyar anwin nai ho jata har airay ghairay natho khairay se... jis se shadi kar di ma baap nay tau usay pyar bi ho gya Sacha wala??????? is not possible in Most cases.... Insan Possesive zaroor ho jata hai magar sacha pyar ho ya nahi is ki koi guaranteee nahi hotyyyyyyyy......................................

[Lady Mystique]

Originally Posted by Alveena

WESE tau Shadi k baad bhi BOhat KUm LOgo ko sacha pyar hota hai.......... Zyada tar t\au Compromise hota hai..na bhi ho tau bhi pyar anwin nai ho jata har airay ghairay natho khairay se... jis se shadi kar di ma baap nay tau usay pyar bi ho gya Sacha wala??????? is not possible in Most cases.... Insan Possesive zaroor ho jata hai magar sacha pyar ho ya nahi is ki koi guaranteee nahi hotyyyyyyyy......................................

Totally Agreed

[mezzedup]

meri definition mera khayal hai keh different hai sab se .. so bear with me ... pyar ehsaas nahin kaifiyat hai ....

its not really a feeling .. its a state of mind ... so u tell me luv some1 ... if i tell u something about them that u hate .... would u stop luving them ... some of u would some wont ... so are u telling me that the ppl who shall stop they didnt really luv their spouses/bf/gf ... if no .. where did the love go?....if yes .. how can u say the didnt luv them? ..... why does the same person not love their spouse/gf/bf ....

its more like an obsession ... the excitement u get by talking to someone u fancy .... by the time the excitements gone .. usually is the love too (thats what we call flirting) ... and if the excitements gone and ur still together its more of an obsession ... how many of us ... actually sit down ... and think about whether the couple is truly compatible or not ?????

when i start reading a book a good one .. i get addicted to it .... every single moment i am thinking aobut hte plot .. the next move ... luv it ... am i in luv with it ???? ..... i am depending on it .....
those of u who write a journal at night .. can u live without writing it for a long time ??? .. do u not miss it or go berserk when u can not find it ...

love does happen .... in the truest of its infamous definitions .... but its really hard to draw a line between ... being in love with the thought of being in luv .... or with the person .. before or after marriage has its own pros and cons .. i leave that story for another day

my views .. are perhaps ... perplexing .... hope i dont bore u ...
case rested!

[Lady Mystique]

Originally Posted by mezzedup

meri definition mera khayal hai keh different hai sab se .. so bear with me ... pyar ehsaas nahin kaifiyat hai ....

its not really a feeling .. its a state of mind ... so u tell me luv some1 ... if i tell u something about them that u hate .... would u stop luving them ... some of u would some wont ... so are u telling me that the ppl who shall stop they didnt really luv their spouses/bf/gf ... if no .. where did the love go?....if yes .. how can u say the didnt luv them? ..... why does the same person not love their spouse/gf/bf ....

its more like an obsession ... the excitement u get by talking to someone u fancy .... by the time the excitements gone .. usually is the love too (thats what we call flirting) ... and if the excitements gone and ur still together its more of an obsession ... how many of us ... actually sit down ... and think about whether the couple is truly compatible or not ?????

when i start reading a book a good one .. i get addicted to it .... every single moment i am thinking aobut hte plot .. the next move ... luv it ... am i in luv with it ???? ..... i am depending on it .....
those of u who write a journal at night .. can u live without writing it for a long time ??? .. do u not miss it or go berserk when u can not find it ...

love does happen .... in the truest of its infamous definitions .... but its really hard to draw a line between ... being in love with the thought of being in luv .... or with the person .. before or after marriage has its own pros and cons .. i leave that story for another day

my views .. are perhaps ... perplexing .... hope i dont bore u ...
case rested!

true...many ppl just end up being in luv with luv itself instead of being in luv with the person.....especially in case of marriage ........

[DIYA_786]

Agreed with waiting-eyes.
As long as you get married to the person if you fall in love before marriage theres nothing wrong with that.

[mezzedup]

Originally Posted by Lady Mystique

true...many ppl just end up being in luv with luv itself instead of being in luv with the person.....especially in case of marriage ........

it does happen to many ppl ... but i wouldnt know about marriage .. or rather not talk about it