| Eleni meray pass Is ka Complete solution nahi.. aur Zaroori nahi K jaisa main sochon baqee Log bhi sochain. So main yahan aak baat kerna chahon ge Jo k bohat sensitive hay aur Jise sab se Pahlay Mind main rakhna chahiye. yahan Bohat se Logo ne kaha k bhaag ker shadi ker lain... apne merzi keran.. etc etc
Yah decisions baad k hain... pahlay is baat ko samjhna chahiye k un ki families na Inkaar kyun kia yah woh kyun nahi maan rahay Obviously "MASLAQ" is the basic Issue. shadi aak aisa rishta hay Jis main sab se pahlay religious point of view se sochna aur dekhna chahiye. Heart feelings apne Jagha But Relogious main aise cheezon ki Gunjaish bohat baad main aati hay. Jahan compromize bhi kerna perta hay aur Secrifice bhi.
In short if they Can Undestand this Main Point n if religious point of view keep Importance n periority for them then they should decide in the Light of Islam. Conflicts arise when we Ignor somethings n Jus decide about One. If we keep all in sight then issues become minor n narrow. |