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Originally Posted by Mrs.Khan

Aik aur baat yaad ayee which is an example for me and my siblings, yeh aur kissi ki nahi meray parents ki baat hay.

We were in Dubai back then and in those days when my eldest brother was only in FSc there came this video games mania! yeh he too with his friend started going there prettttttyyyyyyyy much! Earlier in that time he used to either go for football or to liabrary for making some notes. My mother somehow got suspicious of his activities and since she knew this would look bad if she herself go after him, she told my dad. Not only that she got a bit mad at my abu ji also coz my abu ji is a big time NEWS LOVER (just like most of dads! " Anyways she told him " Aap news suna kerain kul ko issi ka phal khana hay na aur aulaad ko jo marzi aayeh kernay dain, aapko patta hay Shahid aaj kul liabrary jata hay yaa foot ball ya kahin aur? " My abu ji got worried too and strated to follow him! As you all know kids happen to be a bit more clever than their parents my brother managed to dodge my baba jaan and dint get caught. But after sometime when he got relaxed that abu ji is not coming after him anymore my dad caught him RED HANDED! yeah he was in the middle of some game when baba jaan reached there and stood at his back he wanted to beat the heck out of him. And yes he took REAL SERIOUS NOTICE and reacted pretty mad at him!

We all siblings used to think "awww see how bad it is baba jaan could have made him understand some other way, he might be feeling sooo embarresed infront of his friends! bechara! Nobody among us could have thought what parents would have gone through. But today when we all are grown up and that same bhai of mine is going to be a Urologist soon inshaALLAH, when I have my own kid at hom but not a son though, I still think that was the BEST TREATMENT my father gave to him and my mother supported our dad!

So you see same is the case with dating and stuff, you dont give your children enough education of Deen then you cry! you dont educate them with VALUES and then you cry! You do not pay attention to their activities and then again its you who would cry at the end!