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Originally Posted by mezzedup  meri definition mera khayal hai keh different hai sab se .. so bear with me ... pyar ehsaas nahin kaifiyat hai ....
its not really a feeling .. its a state of mind ... so u tell me luv some1 ... if i tell u something about them that u hate .... would u stop luving them ... some of u would some wont ... so are u telling me that the ppl who shall stop they didnt really luv their spouses/bf/gf ... if no .. where did the love go?....if yes .. how can u say the didnt luv them? ..... why does the same person not love their spouse/gf/bf ....
its more like an obsession ... the excitement u get by talking to someone u fancy .... by the time the excitements gone .. usually is the love too (thats what we call flirting) ... and if the excitements gone and ur still together its more of an obsession ... how many of us ... actually sit down ... and think about whether the couple is truly compatible or not ?????
when i start reading a book a good one .. i get addicted to it .... every single moment i am thinking aobut hte plot .. the next move ... luv it ... am i in luv with it ???? ..... i am depending on it .....
those of u who write a journal at night .. can u live without writing it for a long time ??? .. do u not miss it or go berserk when u can not find it ...
love does happen .... in the truest of its infamous definitions .... but its really hard to draw a line between ... being in love with the thought of being in luv .... or with the person .. before or after marriage has its own pros and cons .. i leave that story for another day
my views .. are perhaps ... perplexing .... hope i dont bore u ...
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true...many ppl just end up being in luv with luv itself instead of being in luv with the person.....especially in case of marriage ........
